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Old May 04, 2013, 09:25 AM
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Hi. It's with a heavy heart and a broken soul that I announce that TL has passed. For the past several months, she's been fighting her illnesses and has refused to tell anyone about it, even me. I was trying to be helpful to others b/c she would have wanted me to...she wanted me to tell the Bear Family, and her family at PC, "that you all were the best things that happened to me, even though I might've failed you". For that, we are both so grafeful...you helped TL and made her life so much better. I wish you all could know what you've done for her, and for that, I am so grateful.
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Old May 04, 2013, 09:28 AM
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I'm so sorry to hear that!!!!
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Old May 04, 2013, 09:28 AM
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I feel I must be missing something since I don't know you. Are you saying someone died?? Are you TL (Toothlesslady)?
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Old May 04, 2013, 09:31 AM
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So sorry to hear TL (Toothlesslady) has passed away. My thoughts are with you.
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Old May 04, 2013, 09:34 AM
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Now I understand and I'm very sorry for your loss. We appreciate you letting us know. Very sad.
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Old May 04, 2013, 09:43 AM
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I'm so sorry to hear that. My thoughts are with you too.
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Old May 04, 2013, 09:48 AM
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Sending love and light your way in this difficult time.
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Old May 04, 2013, 09:51 AM
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Wow, I've only been back here a few days but I do remember TL and spoke to her in chat a number of times.
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Old May 04, 2013, 10:06 AM
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Hi. It's with a heavy heart and a broken soul that I announce that TL has passed. For the past several months, she's been fighting her illnesses and has refused to tell anyone about it, even me. I was trying to be helpful to others b/c she would have wanted me to...she wanted me to tell the Bear Family, and her family at PC, "that you all were the best things that happened to me, even though I might've failed you". For that, we are both so grafeful...you helped TL and made her life so much better. I wish you all could know what you've done for her, and for that, I am so grateful.
How is her hubby doing? Does her daughter know? When did Mamabear die? Why didn't she talk to me? Wondered why i hadn't heard from her. I should have done more, i knew she wasn't coping and wasn't well but she told me not to say anything even though i asked her to go see a Dr. She can't leave me....she promised!! Please, who are you? How do you know TL? I'd like to know. She didn't fail anyone, she welcomed everyone, she helped a lot of people on here in chat, her room in chat was the safest, funniest, caring, loving and she gave great advice!! She welcomed me when i first came here and on chat when i didn't know anyone and took me under her wing and adopted me, i can't believe she's gone.... She gave me my name!! I was notspecial when i joined and she got me to change it to this....miss you Mamabear R♥I♥P
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Old May 04, 2013, 10:15 AM
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i am so so so so sorry. she was soooooo nice and kind to me. funny, warm, caring...i really liked her. i am going to miss her so very very very much.
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Old May 04, 2013, 10:33 AM
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i don't know who you are posting under TL's name telling us this very sad news.....but you have my sympathy

TL was one of my dearest friends here, she was my "sys" , we spent countless hours playing games on facebook to distract ourselves, countless hours in chat (private chatting alot of the times) .....i could go on and on at all the the things about TL, but the one thing I will miss about her the most is the kindness and true friendship she showed to me, there is just so much about her , too much to write here !

I will miss the laughter you brought to my life TL

Rest In peace my dear friend and sys
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Old May 04, 2013, 10:42 AM
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I didn't know her but very sad news.

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Old May 04, 2013, 03:01 PM
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For the record, I'm LD,TL's husband. She asked me to post this in the event of her passing. I'm sorry.
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Old May 04, 2013, 03:10 PM
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((( LD ))) Thank you so much for posting, I'm really sorry for your loss.
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Old May 04, 2013, 03:53 PM
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LD, I am so very sorry for your loss.
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Hi. It's with a heavy heart and a broken soul that I announce that TL has passed. For the past several months, she's been fighting her illnesses and has refused to tell anyone about it, even me. I was trying to be helpful to others b/c she would have wanted me to...she wanted me to tell the Bear Family, and her family at PC, "that you all were the best things that happened to me, even though I might've failed you". For that, we are both so grafeful...you helped TL and made her life so much better. I wish you all could know what you've done for her, and for that, I am so grateful.
Sending all my Prayers and Hugz too TL's family and friends my condolences. Thank you for letting us know Tl was a great and wonderful person and has helped me and been there for me so much and she never failed anyone.
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Old May 04, 2013, 04:08 PM
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I am so sorry for your loss.

I did not know TL but from the looks of it she was very dear and loved.

Condolences and love to you and the rest of the family.

RIP
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Old May 04, 2013, 04:11 PM
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Deepest condolences. I am sorry for your loss. Thoughts and prayers
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Old May 04, 2013, 04:19 PM
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we are so so sorry for your loss LD this is very very very sad and shocking hurts, been thinking a lot about her and wondering where she has been...She made feel safe here and welcoming and protective Thank you very much for informing us and sharing her words they mean alot!!! I hope her death was not painfukl and that you have much support...and you are welcome here anytime to be, share, getsupport, a listening ear... Again, so so so sorry She-TL is still around protecting, loving, well, bringing a courageous, loving, safe and guiding breeze of wisdom, light and love~
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Old May 04, 2013, 04:37 PM
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She is dearly loved and will be missed by many. May her soul spread far and wide to others who seek peace. She gave so much. I shall always remember her humor and wisdom.
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Old May 04, 2013, 05:06 PM
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I will really miss TL. So sorry for your loss.
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Old May 04, 2013, 06:59 PM
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Hard to find the words the convey the feelings I am feeling. TL was special to so many, a strong support, and tender soul.
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Old May 04, 2013, 06:59 PM
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LD....
Can you check the private messages in TL's profile page.?
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Old May 04, 2013, 07:20 PM
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So sorry for your loss LD. May TL rest in peace and spread her love and humor to those around her. She will be dearly missed. Love and Prayers, Buttr
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Old May 04, 2013, 07:38 PM
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This cant be true!!!!!!!! No no no no
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