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Default Feb 03, 2023 at 04:24 AM
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Hi to anybody that might see this, i really appreciate you taking the time to read.

Over christmas i lost my little sister, her funeral was the 17th (my terminal fathers birthday)

we were like twins, have 4 older siblings a 10 year gap then me n my lil sis,

I personally think i did so good over the funeral, i kept clear, i helped mend fences and had my breakdown at home when nobody was looking. anyway because my lil sis and i are so linked, it seems i remind my family too much of her, i live rural so i'm very isolated and my family don't seem to want to speak to me,

I'm very very lost,

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Default Feb 03, 2023 at 06:08 AM
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Very very sorry for your great loss Turtleboy.🙏 Hold on to all the good things and good memories to carry your spirit forward, and to alleviate the pain. Many condolences to you and I'm sending you big hugs.

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Im so sorry for your loss, turtle
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Turtleboy, My deepest sympathies go out to you.
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Default Feb 03, 2023 at 01:42 PM
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I'm sorry, Turtleboy. Keep on processing, and be sure to take care of yourself.
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Big hugs if they will help, turtle
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Default Feb 03, 2023 at 10:14 PM
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I'm so sorry TurtleBoy. I hope you can find peace.

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Default Feb 05, 2023 at 07:56 PM
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Turtle, it may not be that they don't want to talk to you....just that the situation is so new and hurts so much and I am sure everyone is hurting just as you are. Try not to make any judgement with your family. Try to be supportive where you can. Be gentle
with yourself and each other.

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HUGS I am so sorry for your loss

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How are you feeling now, turtleboy?
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Hugs. I'm so sorry for your loss.
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Default May 26, 2023 at 05:26 AM
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I just now stumbled across this thread. I'm saddened to read that you were not getting the family support you needed, after this heartbreaking loss. I remember that your father was very ill and that you were in rough shape, dealing with that. Losing those we love and have been loved by is so very hard. I hope there is beauty in your rural surroundings and that it may uplift your spirit. I'm sending a hug.
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