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Mar 09, 2008, 02:58 PM
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My heart is absolutely breaking right now. some of you know that I lost my first grandchild March 11 1996. Thursday morning at 6:30 I lost my third to miscarriage. almost 12 yrs to the day. 5 days apart. My daughter is hurting so bad and not one to allow me to comfort her. I was so looking forward to another little one to love and even spoil. I thank God I was able to see the baby. I think it actually helped somewhat.
My nephew and his wife are due 11 days before this one was due. it is going to be rough for my daughter and myself. sorry for the long post but I had to kind of get these feelings out somewhere.
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Mar 09, 2008, 04:07 PM
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((((bebop)))) I am so very sorry for you and your daughter. I cannot imagine the sorrow you are feeling right now. Know that you are in my thoughts.
 BJ
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Mar 09, 2008, 04:33 PM
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only thank you hon. I never thought this would happen. she had problems just about the whole time she was pregnant so I guess in the back of my mind I knew but geesh! now I have 2 angels in Heaven.
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Mar 09, 2008, 05:56 PM
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Bee -
so sorry - life is so not fair and so not right sometimes - a lot of time actually. Nothing to say that can help - just know that others understand the pain you and your daughter have and wish it were not so. I always had a hard time letting my Mom comfort me too - don't know why - just did - even though I lived her more than life. Take special care of yourself. |
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Mar 09, 2008, 08:28 PM
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(((Bee)))
I am so sorry my friend...
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#6
Mar 09, 2008, 10:13 PM
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pita thanks hon. I wish I had a super close relationship with my daughter.
clyde hon you are so sweet! thank you.
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Mar 10, 2008, 07:17 PM
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 Holds Bop ,,, REAL TIGHT <<<< Will Not let GO ... 
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Mar 10, 2008, 07:23 PM
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corkey thank you hon. sure feels good!
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Mar 10, 2008, 07:25 PM
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((((bebop )))))))))
So sorry awwwww |
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Mar 10, 2008, 07:35 PM
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ah thanks muffy. I am just happy this happened now instead of later.
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Mar 10, 2008, 07:38 PM
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((((((bebop)))))))))))))
my heart to your daughter and you |
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#12
Mar 10, 2008, 08:04 PM
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thanks hon. it is much appreciated
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Mar 10, 2008, 08:14 PM
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I'm so sorry hon!
 (((((((((((( bebop )))))))))))
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Mar 10, 2008, 09:00 PM
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 ,,,>>>>. Is close BY and Watching,,>>>>>>...... As each minute passes ,,, and is still and ,"q u i e t",.Rest some through this Bop ,, and as the tears fall ,, and the guts hurt ,,,,  {(*{(*{{{{{{ Hugs with Sugar }}}}}}*)}*)}.
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Mar 10, 2008, 09:09 PM
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ty fuzzy
corkey thanks sweetie. not alot of tears right now but yesterday there was! whew!
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Mar 24, 2008, 05:18 PM
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my daughter finally got the pathology report back at the drs on friday. nothing was wrong with the baby. it would have been healthy. apparently she had some kind of infection but they are not sure which came first, infection or miscarriage.
she is hoping to get pregnant soon. there are 3 others in our family that are pregnant right now. all were due around the same time.
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Mar 24, 2008, 05:46 PM
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(((Bee)))
So sorry my dear friend
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Mar 24, 2008, 06:01 PM
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thanks hon.
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Mar 29, 2008, 11:12 PM
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Oh (((((((((bebop)))))))))) . . . I can't imagine your sadness. Anniversaries of deaths are always difficult times. This one is rather tough for you all because children are just so wonderful...hopes were crushed. Your angels didn't suffer.
And I'm certain when timing is right she'll be pregnant again. Make sure she eats the green veggies for her folic acid! According to my doc ....Supposed to eat greens before getting pregnant (to ensure healthy eggs release). So no alcohol that month before trying nor the months trying to get pregnant. |
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Mar 30, 2008, 06:24 AM
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thank you so much jennie. we are doing better now but still have those moments. I will let her know about the greenies. thankfully she doesn't drink! btw how is your little guy doing?
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Mar 30, 2008, 11:34 AM
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</font><blockquote><div id="quote"><font class="small">Quote:</font>
bebop said: thank you so much jennie. we are doing better now but still have those moments. I will let her know about the greenies. thankfully she doesn't drink! btw how is your little guy doing? </div></font></blockquote><font class="post"> It's good to read you are coping well with the grief. Sometimes when I'm reminded of my loved ones I've lost I am reminded of my anger with God. I cope through the use of art...making beautiful things. What do you that helps you? My son is doing great. He's a silly boy with an infectious laugh. I'll pm you our YouTube videos. |
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#22
Mar 30, 2008, 03:08 PM
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jennie we have both found it helps to talk about the ones we lost. it has been pretty rough on her having the miscarriage but she did tell me the other day it is very different than her daughter's passing. yes it is very different but still a loss. she is hoping to get preggie soon again.
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