[Sue1SM]

Hi

Im new and need some serious help. The heading here said loss due to death or other. My soulmate told me yesterday after a blissfull 14 months together that he does not know if he loves me anymore. We were engaged and I was in the process of selling my jouse and moving to him. We were ecstatically happy and this came totally out of the blue.

I was very low due to work stress at that moment and all that kept me sane was our future life together. I dont know how to go on. Ive been through a divorce and am still friends with my ex and then found my soulmate. I feel shell shocked and ready to give up.

[Rapunzel]

The grief process does apply any time you lose someone, or something, important to you. Your post doesn't make it clear whether he is just going through some doubts right now, or if he has broken off the relationship. We also have a relationships forum, and if you are still trying to work it out, you might try posting there. If this is the end, then you will need to go through a grief process as you would when someone dies, or as you would grieve for the loss of your marriage after a divorce (even when you stay friends, there are changes that need to be grieved).

How are things going now?

[Sue1SM]

Hi

Thanx for your response. He broke it off with virtually no explanation which made it even worse. Made me doubt my own ability of perception, etc etc. Has been hell, but other things happened in my life that made me see that we were not meant to be together and if he was willing to give up so easily after telling me I am his world and everything, he is not worth it!