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Old Apr 15, 2009, 01:05 PM
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My mom died a little over a month ago.

It was very complicated due to all kinds of family stuff which I don't want to go in to right now, partly for fear that since it's long and complicated nobody will read and respond and I will end up feeling worse. But anyway I have a mixture of guilt and sadness. Today it's mostly sadness.

I miss my mommy. Isn't that wierd? I'm 55 years old, and I miss my mommy. I had only seen her once in the last four years, but yet I miss her terribly, much more than before she died.
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Old Apr 15, 2009, 11:36 PM
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(((((((((((( LizzyB )))))))))))))) compassion

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Old Apr 16, 2009, 01:10 AM
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Old Apr 16, 2009, 08:22 AM
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Thanks for the support, guys. I feel better today.
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Old Apr 18, 2009, 03:58 PM
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(((((Lizzy)))) I can not even imagine the pain you are going through. I dread the day my parents pass, and they are still fairly young. we are so close that it is going to kill me.
Biggest thing with grief is try not to plan too much in advance. An hour may be too much for your fragile soul right now. Minute by minute, hour by hour, day by day it will get bearable. I won't say easier cuz it's never easy to miss someone you love so much but time will make it bearable.
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Old Apr 25, 2009, 05:33 PM
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Old Apr 26, 2009, 11:17 AM
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No, it's not "weird" at all, Lizzy....
The child within misses her mommy.
That's normal. And very understandable.

My thoughts and prayers are with you
during this difficult time.

Peace!
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Old Apr 27, 2009, 08:02 PM
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Lizzy B,
We are the same age. My darling mother died in January. Never think that you are alone.
I'm here if you need anything.
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