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If you need to talk to someone about the situation and to get feedback on the situation is to call 1-800-422-4453. People will listen and give referals but won't report. Concerned about you. Sounds like she is messing up your life and your future. Have you taken the SAT yet? That is very important.
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Yes I'm very concerned too. She needs to leave your house.
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#23
Kricket1992, can you check in with us and let us know how you are doing? We are concerned.
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I really super appreciate all the feedback I got from you guys. I did just talk to my dad. He was very alarmed and she is to be out of the house in the next day or two. So yeah. I feel bad for putting someone out on their butt. But it really was time. For 5 months it's been like this. But Like I said, I really appreciate the help.
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I just read this thread. I'm glad you talked to your dad. Glad he took decisive action and kicked the girl out of your house. I'm a teacher and I'm really sorry you had to experience this kind of abuse. Let us know affirmatively that the girl is gone! You said a "few days," and in the meantime, I'm kind of concerned for you.
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Thanks for gettinp back to us Kricket1992. I am glad your dad is kicking her out so fast. I would not be surprised if she tried to deny your actions to your dad. Keep posting.
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Thanks God she's leaving. I agree with with NF - someone like that might be manipulative. I wouldn't feel sorry for her at all. If you were my child I would call the police on this lady. I honestly would throw her stuff out the door and she would be out in 10 minutes. I'm very proud you told Kricket and make sure you stay strong and don't let her intimidate you - don't be alone with her. I was really worried about you and I'm sorry you had to suffer like this. I can't believe she wants to be a psychologist - she's disturbed.
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Lynn, Ironically enough, there are enough disordered t's out there that this person could very well end up on the wrong side of the desk in the mental health field. Scarey thought!
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Yeah. She denied everything. I'm not going to lie. Now that she is leaving, I can say this. But back in January, we were wrestling on the floor and I was trying to get away from her because she was trying to hold me down because I was getting really upset and out of control. But as I was trying to get away, somehow my face got slammed into the floor and I broke my nose really bad. And she said to tell my parents that I fell. So I did. But nobody believed me. And then in February, we were wrestling again and she "accidentally" punched me in the face and broke it again. I had to go to a specialist to make sure it wasn't causing issues. I will let you guys know when she is gone for good. I'm staying at my mom's for now until she's gone.
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I am so glad you are away from her. The abuse stories seem to be only the tip of the iceberg and seem to reveal so much more as time goes on...both on here and in the news. I am so sorry that you had to put up with her and for sharing what was going on in your life. Very brave young woman you are. I hope you stay on here...she may no longer be a threat to you but we still care. Hope you can breathe a little easier now. Safe hugs for you!
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I too, am so glad some decisive action has been taken. Well done on doing the right thing kricket. I know it must of been hard for you.
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I have 2 daughters 8 and 11 and I've taught them about being assertive with anyone who hurts them. My oldest has her brown belt in Karate. I think it would be great for you to learn how to protect yourself and be assertive. No one has the right to hurt you physically or emotionally - even if you're bad. I'm very happy you're safe now __________________ This is our little cutie Bella *Practice on-line safety. *Cheaters - collecting jar of hearts. *Make your mess, your message. *"Be the change you want to see" (Gandhi) |
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The sad thing is Lynn, this woman is only 24 and kricket is 17. That is what shocked me so about this all.
Kricket, I am so glad you reached out to us. I know that I thought about this so much after you posted and felt distinctly uncomfortable about the situation and what you have been going through. You did the right thing by reaching out and you have been very brave in talking to your Dad who has taken the necessary action to get this woman out of your life. __________________ Crying isn't a sign of weakness. It's a sign of having tried too hard to be strong for too long. |
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I also don't see how a 24 yr old, unless she's a qualified teacher, can live in and take responsibility of a 17 yr old. I worry what this young woman might do to others - if she babysits some other persons children. This is why I think the authorities should be notified - if it's recorded she abused Kricket she won't be able to get a job caring for children.
I agree there's something off - where you trust a strange woman to have complete control over a teenager. __________________ This is our little cutie Bella *Practice on-line safety. *Cheaters - collecting jar of hearts. *Make your mess, your message. *"Be the change you want to see" (Gandhi) |
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Kricket...this is a very strange situation. Your father let this young woman live in your house and have full control over you. She needs to be out of your house NOW! Is she? I'm glad you are staying with your mother at this time. Your mother should be outraged. I would be. I really question your father's judgment in allowing this to happen...sorry. IF this 24 year old woman is not out of the home NOW, be very careful about returning there, if you have a choice. I'm concerned and I want to know what is happening.
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Good to hear that you finally told your father... I am PROUD of YOU!
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