Getting spanked by a homeschooling teacher??

NuckingFutz · Apr 22, 2010 at 02:09 PM

If you need to talk to someone about the situation and to get feedback on the situation is to call 1-800-422-4453. People will listen and give referals but won't report. Concerned about you. Sounds like she is messing up your life and your future. Have you taken the SAT yet? That is very important.

lynn P. · Apr 22, 2010 at 03:14 PM

Yes I'm very concerned too. She needs to leave your house.

NuckingFutz · Apr 22, 2010 at 03:27 PM

Kricket1992, can you check in with us and let us know how you are doing? We are concerned.

kricket1992 · Apr 22, 2010 at 04:55 PM

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Originally Posted by lynn P.

It's dangerous getting it in your eyes. This is abuse and she needs needs to be reported. She's not a relative and it's not right she can treat you like this. I would call the police and tell your dad. He can't possibly support her actions. You haven't mentioned why you can't go to regular school. How old is she? This is very wrong so please don't let her get away with it.

I dropped out of regular school. They don't want me back. I'm not a bad kid. I just was a very big trouble maker there. And I'm doing home schooling so that I can get my GED soon. And I just did talk to my dad. He told her to pack her things and get out! Oh man. That happened fast.

kricket1992 · Apr 22, 2010 at 05:02 PM

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Kricket1992, can you check in with us and let us know how you are doing? We are concerned.

I really super appreciate all the feedback I got from you guys. I did just talk to my dad. He was very alarmed and she is to be out of the house in the next day or two. So yeah. I feel bad for putting someone out on their butt. But it really was time. For 5 months it's been like this. But Like I said, I really appreciate the help.

seeker1950 · Apr 22, 2010 at 06:16 PM

I just read this thread. I'm glad you talked to your dad. Glad he took decisive action and kicked the girl out of your house. I'm a teacher and I'm really sorry you had to experience this kind of abuse. Let us know affirmatively that the girl is gone! You said a "few days," and in the meantime, I'm kind of concerned for you.
Patty

NuckingFutz · Apr 22, 2010 at 07:01 PM

Thanks for gettinp back to us Kricket1992. I am glad your dad is kicking her out so fast. I would not be surprised if she tried to deny your actions to your dad. Keep posting.

lynn P. · Apr 22, 2010 at 07:58 PM

Thanks God she's leaving. I agree with with NF - someone like that might be manipulative. I wouldn't feel sorry for her at all. If you were my child I would call the police on this lady. I honestly would throw her stuff out the door and she would be out in 10 minutes. I'm very proud you told Kricket

and make sure you stay strong and don't let her intimidate you - don't be alone with her. I was really worried about you and I'm sorry you had to suffer like this. I can't believe she wants to be a psychologist - she's disturbed.

NuckingFutz · Apr 22, 2010 at 09:33 PM

Lynn, Ironically enough, there are enough disordered t's out there that this person could very well end up on the wrong side of the desk in the mental health field. Scarey thought!

lynn P. · Apr 22, 2010 at 09:42 PM

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Originally Posted by NuckingFutz

Lynn, Ironically enough, there are enough disordered t's out there that this person could very well end up on the wrong side of the desk in the mental health field. Scarey thought!

Yes I agree with you on that one NF.

kricket1992 · Apr 23, 2010 at 12:38 AM

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Thanks for gettinp back to us Kricket1992. I am glad your dad is kicking her out so fast. I would not be surprised if she tried to deny your actions to your dad. Keep posting.

Yeah. She denied everything. I'm not going to lie. Now that she is leaving, I can say this. But back in January, we were wrestling on the floor and I was trying to get away from her because she was trying to hold me down because I was getting really upset and out of control. But as I was trying to get away, somehow my face got slammed into the floor and I broke my nose really bad. And she said to tell my parents that I fell. So I did. But nobody believed me. And then in February, we were wrestling again and she "accidentally" punched me in the face and broke it again. I had to go to a specialist to make sure it wasn't causing issues. I will let you guys know when she is gone for good. I'm staying at my mom's for now until she's gone.

NuckingFutz · Apr 23, 2010 at 02:41 AM

I am so glad you are away from her. The abuse stories seem to be only the tip of the iceberg and seem to reveal so much more as time goes on...both on here and in the news. I am so sorry that you had to put up with her and for sharing what was going on in your life. Very brave young woman you are. I hope you stay on here...she may no longer be a threat to you but we still care. Hope you can breathe a little easier now. Safe hugs for you!

Sabrina · Apr 23, 2010 at 05:40 AM

I too, am so glad some decisive action has been taken. Well done on doing the right thing kricket. I know it must of been hard for you.

lynn P. · Apr 23, 2010 at 11:11 AM

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Yeah. She denied everything. I'm not going to lie. Now that she is leaving, I can say this. But back in January, we were wrestling on the floor and I was trying to get away from her because she was trying to hold me down because I was getting really upset and out of control. But as I was trying to get away, somehow my face got slammed into the floor and I broke my nose really bad. And she said to tell my parents that I fell. So I did. But nobody believed me. And then in February, we were wrestling again and she "accidentally" punched me in the face and broke it again. I had to go to a specialist to make sure it wasn't causing issues. I will let you guys know when she is gone for good. I'm staying at my mom's for now until she's gone.

This is so sad Kricket - this is clear physical abuse. Do you know if your parents get your medical records and call the police - she could be arrested? This woman is dangerous - how old is she? Let us know when she's gone. I'm sorry you had to suffer so much.

I have 2 daughters 8 and 11 and I've taught them about being assertive with anyone who hurts them. My oldest has her brown belt in Karate. I think it would be great for you to learn how to protect yourself and be assertive. No one has the right to hurt you physically or emotionally - even if you're bad. I'm very happy you're safe now

Sabrina · Apr 23, 2010 at 12:25 PM

The sad thing is Lynn, this woman is only 24 and kricket is 17. That is what shocked me so about this all.

Kricket, I am so glad you reached out to us. I know that I thought about this so much after you posted and felt distinctly uncomfortable about the situation and what you have been going through. You did the right thing by reaching out and you have been very brave in talking to your Dad who has taken the necessary action to get this woman out of your life.

lynn P. · Apr 23, 2010 at 01:46 PM

I also don't see how a 24 yr old, unless she's a qualified teacher, can live in and take responsibility of a 17 yr old. I worry what this young woman might do to others - if she babysits some other persons children. This is why I think the authorities should be notified - if it's recorded she abused Kricket she won't be able to get a job caring for children.

I agree there's something off - where you trust a strange woman to have complete control over a teenager.

kricket1992 · Apr 23, 2010 at 04:56 PM

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Originally Posted by lynn P.

I also don't see how a 24 yr old, unless she's a qualified teacher, can live in and take responsibility of a 17 yr old. I worry what this young woman might do to others - if she babysits some other persons children. This is why I think the authorities should be notified - if it's recorded she abused Kricket she won't be able to get a job caring for children.

I agree there's something off - where you trust a strange woman to have complete control over a teenager.

I totally understand about the control thing. But she also got me in close because she became my friend as well. And I do know how to defend myself. I just for some reason didn't want to use it on her. From minute one I felt that I couldn't hurt her. It was weird. I am almost a brown belt in Tae Kwon Do. And she is one belt higher than me. We go to the same Tae Kwon Do school. But yeah. I don't have any medical records of bruises or my broken nose. She told me I didn't need to go to the hospital for my broken nose. She just gave me some heavy pain killers, made me put ice on it and then I went to sleep for the rest of the night. But I went to the doctor for the second broken nose. But there were no xrays taken. So yeah. She has lots of friends with kids. And she babysits all the time. But I've never seen her hit any of them. So who knows:-(

lynn P. · Apr 23, 2010 at 05:03 PM

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I totally understand about the control thing. But she also got me in close because she became my friend as well. And I do know how to defend myself. I just for some reason didn't want to use it on her. From minute one I felt that I couldn't hurt her. It was weird. I am almost a brown belt in Tae Kwon Do. And she is one belt higher than me. We go to the same Tae Kwon Do school. But yeah. I don't have any medical records of bruises or my broken nose. She told me I didn't need to go to the hospital for my broken nose. She just gave me some heavy pain killers, made me put ice on it and then I went to sleep for the rest of the night. But I went to the doctor for the second broken nose. But there were no xrays taken. So yeah. She has lots of friends with kids. And she babysits all the time. But I've never seen her hit any of them. So who knows:-(

I agree it wouldn't have been a good idea to defend yourself against her - I think she had the upper hand here. I was referring to the future, if anyone tries to hurt you. You said she babysits other kids but never saw her hurt them - I bet no one saw you get hurt either. She waits until she's alone to hurt others. Anyway I'm glad your father believed you and she'll be gone soon. Good for you.

seeker1950 · Apr 23, 2010 at 05:39 PM

Kricket...this is a very strange situation. Your father let this young woman live in your house and have full control over you. She needs to be out of your house NOW! Is she? I'm glad you are staying with your mother at this time. Your mother should be outraged. I would be. I really question your father's judgment in allowing this to happen...sorry. IF this 24 year old woman is not out of the home NOW, be very careful about returning there, if you have a choice. I'm concerned and I want to know what is happening.
Patty

Rhapsody · Apr 24, 2010 at 02:00 AM

Good to hear that you finally told your father... I am PROUD of YOU!

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NuckingFutz Pet Lady of Psychcentral Member Since Sep 2005 Location: Las Vegas, NV Posts: 4,564 18 71 hugs given	Apr 22, 2010 at 02:09 PM #21 If you need to talk to someone about the situation and to get feedback on the situation is to call 1-800-422-4453. People will listen and give referals but won't report. Concerned about you. Sounds like she is messing up your life and your future. Have you taken the SAT yet? That is very important.
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seeker1950 Wise Elder Member Since Jun 2005 Location: WV Posts: 8,131 18 1,580 hugs given	Apr 22, 2010 at 06:16 PM #26 I just read this thread. I'm glad you talked to your dad. Glad he took decisive action and kicked the girl out of your house. I'm a teacher and I'm really sorry you had to experience this kind of abuse. Let us know affirmatively that the girl is gone! You said a "few days," and in the meantime, I'm kind of concerned for you. Patty
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NuckingFutz Pet Lady of Psychcentral Member Since Sep 2005 Location: Las Vegas, NV Posts: 4,564 18 71 hugs given	Apr 22, 2010 at 07:01 PM #27 Thanks for gettinp back to us Kricket1992. I am glad your dad is kicking her out so fast. I would not be surprised if she tried to deny your actions to your dad. Keep posting.
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Sabrina Wisest Elder Ever Member Since Feb 2006 Location: South Africa Posts: 67,808 (SuperPoster!) 18 1,653 hugs given	Apr 23, 2010 at 05:40 AM #33 I too, am so glad some decisive action has been taken. Well done on doing the right thing kricket. I know it must of been hard for you. __________________ Crying isn't a sign of weakness. It's a sign of having tried too hard to be strong for too long.
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Rhapsody Wise Elder Member Since Jan 2006 Location: Florida Posts: 9,946 18 1 hugs given	Apr 24, 2010 at 02:00 AM #40 Good to hear that you finally told your father... I am PROUD of YOU!
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