Getting spanked by a homeschooling teacher??

kricket1992 · Apr 26, 2010 at 10:07 AM

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Originally Posted by seeker1950

Kricket...this is a very strange situation. Your father let this young woman live in your house and have full control over you. She needs to be out of your house NOW! Is she? I'm glad you are staying with your mother at this time. Your mother should be outraged. I would be. I really question your father's judgment in allowing this to happen...sorry. IF this 24 year old woman is not out of the home NOW, be very careful about returning there, if you have a choice. I'm concerned and I want to know what is happening.
Patty

She's gone now... My mom is whatever about it. My mom never shows her real emotions about things. She doesn't want to be too negative about it. But it's whatever. I am back home now and she is out of here. So yeah. I'm feeling a lot better now:-) Thanks guys for all the support! I will be posting on some of your guys' posts soon to help you guys out in return!:-)

Rhapsody · Apr 26, 2010 at 11:38 AM

Good for YOU...... You should be PROUD for speaking up.
Now to start your new life... Always be Good and Do your Best.

lynn P. · Apr 30, 2010 at 01:42 PM

Thanks for letting us know Kricket - I'm glad she's gone.

kricket1992 · Apr 30, 2010 at 09:17 PM

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Originally Posted by lynn P.

Thanks for letting us know Kricket - I'm glad she's gone.

Thanks guys for all your support! It really means a lot:-)

CJR520 · May 01, 2010 at 07:01 PM

I think there is mentally wrong with a person 24 years old who would try to put a 17 year old on their lap and spank them, and why are you not leaving the house and going for help or calling for help, etc. This is all wrong in my book!! Your Dad needs to be alerted so he can get this person out of your lives. This is not normal! Sounds like something out of a nightmare to me.

~firefly~ · May 04, 2010 at 09:43 AM

Have you thought about pressing charges against her? You have every right to do that and the spanking thing to me, considering your age and that she is not related to you, sounds dangerously close to sexual assualt. no one has the right to touch you and even with an age appropriate situation you would never pour hot sauce into a childs mouth. Thats abuse no matter how old the child is. Im glad you got a way from her and that your dad kicked her out, you might want to talk to your parents about speaking with the parents of other children she is taking care of. Because one of two things is going to happen if not both, 1 she is going to end up seriously injuring or killing a child and 2 a parent will figure out what she is doing and she will end up seriously injured or dead. Just speaking from a mothers point of view and I dont condone violence at all, but if you were my child this chic would be in some serious physical pain right about now!!

May 04, 2010 at 10:01 PM

hi kricket. i've only just now read this thread and boy am i glad for you she's gone.

i'm really concerned about her hitting you and then giving you "heavy pain killers". i think you should tell your dad about this as she's probably doing it to other kids as well. this is really dangerous behavior on her part. do you know if these pills were prescription or over-the-counter or illegal?

Vibe · May 06, 2010 at 07:35 PM

I am very glad to hear she's gone, and I would highly consider reporting this to the police. If other parents knew about this and questioned their children, I bet they'd come up with similar stories. This woman should not have access to children, and if she became a therapist I certainly wouldn't want to end up getting treated by her. Thus I'd want it on her record.

Also, I am almost 24 now, and I would never consider spanking a girl your age. (Albeit I wouldn't spank young children either, but that's for a different reason.) For me the former would be sexual though, thus highly inappropriate. The fact that she 'became your friend so you wouldn't fight back or speak out,' demonstrates to me that she's manipulative enough to have premeditated this whole thing. This woman sounds like a definite danger. I'm glad she's out of your life.

NuckingFutz · May 07, 2010 at 12:04 AM

Hey kricket. Thanks for checking in. So what are your plans now? Summer is comming. Remembered you kinda lost touch with your school mates and was concerned that you would not have the emotional support you need as well as any educational goals you might be working on. Looking forward to hearing from you.

Gabi925 · May 07, 2010 at 12:11 AM

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Originally Posted by kricket1992

So I started home schooling about a year ago with this girl that my dad knows. She was losing her apartment and needed a place to live. So instead of paying rent at my house, she agreed to be my home school teacher. She was doing a magnificent job for the first few months I think. Then we got really involved. Like she was starting to act like my mom (my mom left when I was 15) and was teaching me to cook and clean right and all this other stuff and when I would get in trouble with her, she would ground me or take my phone away or something along those lines. Well then I stopped caring whether she took my phone or the computer away. I always found ways around it.
Anyway, like 4 months ago, she started spanking me... Mind you I'm 17, but I was 16 when she started doing it. She puts hot sauce in my mouth when I say things out of line, and depending on my behavior, she either spanks me or makes me sit on the couch for a "timeout".

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In your previous thread http://forums.psychcentral.com/showthread.php?t=137470 you said you are 18 years old. Are you an adult or no?

I understand that you have had a therapist (outside the house) for at least 3 years. How you didn't tell to that one this?

Sincerely for me it's hard to imagine someone could put hot sauce in your mouth. Are you immobilized in a wheelchair? (I didn't understand that it's so)
But in that case she can't spank you...

If she would humiliate or harm you I suppose you would not respect her

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Originally Posted by kricket1992

She's like the coolest 24 year old girl I've met. And I respect her. So I'm not sure what I should do.

I also do not understand why you are not going to school outside the house.

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kricket1992 · Jun 22, 2010 at 04:13 AM

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Originally Posted by Gabi925

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In your previous thread http://forums.psychcentral.com/showthread.php?t=137470 you said you are 18 years old. Are you an adult or no?

I understand that you have had a therapist (outside the house) for at least 3 years. How you didn't tell to that one this?

Sincerely for me it's hard to imagine someone could put hot sauce in your mouth. Are you immobilized in a wheelchair? (I didn't understand that it's so)
But in that case she can't spank you...

If she would humiliate or harm you I suppose you would not respect her

I also do not understand why you are not going to school outside the house.

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I was not going to school outside of the house because I didn't like public school... Because of my ADHD... I did not work well in public school... But now I am getting my GED... And yes, I am an adult now. So does that answer things a little better for you?:-)

sharon123 · Jun 30, 2010 at 10:01 AM

That is abuse. It doesn't matter what you have done. You (if your father doesn't do something about this), contact a social worker, hospital,etc....

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sharon123 Member Member Since Jan 2010 Posts: 184 14	Jun 30, 2010 at 10:01 AM #52 That is abuse. It doesn't matter what you have done. You (if your father doesn't do something about this), contact a social worker, hospital,etc....
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