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Old Nov 18, 2013, 10:21 AM
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Not sure if this is the right forum for this question.. it's about my parents and how they raised me. I don't remember a lot of early childhood but I remember being afraid all the time. I was afraid of doing anything wrong. My mom would sometimes humiliate me. Also they expected me to get perfect grades in school and I cried when I didn't get an A in 2nd grade. They exerted a ton of authority over me and I felt powerless all the time.

I'd like to try to get a better understanding of their behavior... if anyone knows what that's called or if there are any books on it... please let me know, thanks
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Old Nov 18, 2013, 11:25 AM
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Not sure if this is the right forum for this question.. it's about my parents and how they raised me. I don't remember a lot of early childhood but I remember being afraid all the time. I was afraid of doing anything wrong. My mom would sometimes humiliate me. Also they expected me to get perfect grades in school and I cried when I didn't get an A in 2nd grade. They exerted a ton of authority over me and I felt powerless all the time.

I'd like to try to get a better understanding of their behavior... if anyone knows what that's called or if there are any books on it... please let me know, thanks
similar upbringing myself for me and sibs. Don't know why. Always supposed to be perfect and could never go to them re any real problems. Just the way it is. Hard at time, but moved on a long time ago. Found other appropriate people I could talk to, tho frankly, I still loved my folks and appreciated them for their good qualities. Anyway, didn't mean to wander on bout my former situ, but to wish you the best with yours and try to move on and find appropriate folks to confide in, if you can. Blessings!
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Old Nov 19, 2013, 09:07 AM
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Congrats on moving on... I wish I had done it sooner. The resentment I've built up for them is pretty strong so it's hard for me to find the good in them at this point.
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Old Nov 19, 2013, 09:39 AM
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There's a book called, if you had controlling parents, that is pretty good.
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Old Nov 19, 2013, 01:35 PM
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Thanks I'll check that out
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