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Grand Poohbah
Member Since Jan 2008
Location: Michigan
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As some as you may know, I am married, 22 years old, and my husband has a 6 and 4 year old that I am not too used to. I am still struggling to like them and love them, and I really want to put an effort to it but I seem unmotivated. Does anyone know any online recources that can help me out, or even a forum somewhere that is specifically about kids? I don't know where to start. What motivated me to post this is that last night I had a dream about the kids, then I thought about all the dreams Ive had about the children and not one was positive. I have dreams of the little boy having tantrum after tantrum, last nights dream I was asking the girl in a snotty way "why are you crying? why why? stop that", and I was just glaring down at the little boy in discust. HELP! Sure I cannot control my dreams, but if I could grow to like them and love them and change my outlook, Im sure my dreams would follow. I just don't know where to start, I know the internet is like a sky-high library out there, so theres bound to be something out there that can put me in the right direction, THANKS!
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Legendary
Member Since Oct 2005
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here is a couple of forums
step parenting the parents center forum step parents hopefully you can get other ideas from other members and some stuff out of these sites __________________ No kind action ever stops with itself. One kind action leads to another. Good example is followed. A single act of kindness throws out roots in all directions, and the roots spring up and make new trees. The greatest work that kindness does to others is that it makes them kind themselves. |
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Grand Poohbah
Member Since Jan 2008
Location: Michigan
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thank-you
__________________ Do not stand at my grave and weep; I am not there. I do not sleep. I am a thousand winds that blow. I am the diamond glints on snow. I am the sunlight on ripened grain. I am the gentle autumn's rain. When you awaken in the morning's hush, I am the swift uplifting rush of quiet birds in circled flight. I am the soft stars that shine at night. Do not stand at my grave and cry; I am not there, I did not die. R.I.P. Bandit 7-12-08 I love you I miss you. |
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Grand Poohbah
Member Since Jan 2008
Location: Michigan
Posts: 1,840
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#4
I found a great one, to anyone in my shoes who would love to join one as well, (www.steptalk.org)
__________________ Do not stand at my grave and weep; I am not there. I do not sleep. I am a thousand winds that blow. I am the diamond glints on snow. I am the sunlight on ripened grain. I am the gentle autumn's rain. When you awaken in the morning's hush, I am the swift uplifting rush of quiet birds in circled flight. I am the soft stars that shine at night. Do not stand at my grave and cry; I am not there, I did not die. R.I.P. Bandit 7-12-08 I love you I miss you. |
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