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Default Jul 06, 2008 at 05:54 PM
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As some as you may know, I am married, 22 years old, and my husband has a 6 and 4 year old that I am not too used to. I am still struggling to like them and love them, and I really want to put an effort to it but I seem unmotivated. Does anyone know any online recources that can help me out, or even a forum somewhere that is specifically about kids? I don't know where to start. What motivated me to post this is that last night I had a dream about the kids, then I thought about all the dreams Ive had about the children and not one was positive. I have dreams of the little boy having tantrum after tantrum, last nights dream I was asking the girl in a snotty way "why are you crying? why why? stop that", and I was just glaring down at the little boy in discust. HELP! Sure I cannot control my dreams, but if I could grow to like them and love them and change my outlook, Im sure my dreams would follow. I just don't know where to start, I know the internet is like a sky-high library out there, so theres bound to be something out there that can put me in the right direction, THANKS!

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Default Jul 06, 2008 at 06:26 PM
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here is a couple of forums

step parenting

the parents center forum

step parents

hopefully you can get other ideas from other members and some stuff out of these sites

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thank-you Need some help finding more help

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Default Jul 08, 2008 at 09:44 AM
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I found a great one, to anyone in my shoes who would love to join one as well, (www.steptalk.org)

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