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OK Yes Im going to try this again, lol, this sucks that Im the only one who posts on this thread, LOL, I know its not Psych centrals fault, nor mine either, But i sure in the hell know Im not the only one who battles with this disoder either, so Im trying to find a way to have my feller sufferers start to post, it doesnt matter what your posting just freaking post LOL.
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Hi honeybee777, I am Grace Claire and I am new. I too have HPD, so I will be joining you on the HPD threads. You sound frustrated! TTYL!
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well ty, nice to meet you gracie, lets tear up this HPD thread lol
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I liken this to the situation with BPD and men, like myself. It ws thought at one point that the number of men with BPD was far smaller than it actually is and this results from men not getting help or getting dx'd. Similarly some of the traits as a man look differently as bpd, almost as if they accept the wrecklessness of bpd as "just being a man". Hope this helps. ~S4 |
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Here I am!! Yes, yes, you are not alone with HPD. There are reasons I haven't been here much: I have learned to cope well (therapy and EMDR), and am learning to recognize what triggers an HPD episode of very typical HPD behaviors, and I have been sort of avoiding PC, as it made me feel all-consumed by my disorder when I was on here a lot.
And, let's be honest, HPD women can irritate other HPD women. So, no surprise that we're not all bonding here like they do at the BPD forum, etc. But I am here - though not often - and I have been, rightfully so, dx-ed with HPD a year or so ago. Yes, we exist. |
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definitely not alone
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well thanks you all for posting when you can, I hope this forum becomes great
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Great, now when I'm dealing with my histrionic traits you're GONE!!!!!!!!
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I just had a massive falling out with my family because my mother's a @&*((*^%#@@$$%
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I think the way I am dysfunctional is mostly due to my relationship with my mother. After all, she's the one who taught me. What do you think about you compared to your mother? __________________ "And don't say it hasn't been a little slice of heaven, 'cause it hasn't!" . About Me--T |
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Honestly, I have mother issues and those all run deep. A lot of it is that I feel that I've quite literally become my mother and I hate it. |
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Still, there are things she said that I vowed as a kid I would never say to my kids, and I never did. Like "because I said so". I hated when she wouldn't give me an answer and said that! __________________ "And don't say it hasn't been a little slice of heaven, 'cause it hasn't!" . About Me--T |
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I'm talking to my parents again. My mother laughs about calling me a mercinary little b. She thinks it's funny. I don't. My dad proved to be nothing. There's just nothing deeper within him. You can't get blood from a stone. So I talk to them, occasionally, not getting involved any more.
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Hi, just found out about this section. Im pretty sure I have HPD along with BP1. Ive always thought I had another disorder along with BP and I fit HPD 100%.
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I have suspected for some time that I have hpd, but I'm not sure how to tell if it's that or that I have some of the symptoms because of other issues... Or is it still hpd if it is caused by other things, like it's a result? All I know is I have a tendency to engage in inappropriate flirting and my emotions are often seen as unusual by other people, either too strong or too weak.
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This is my other dx, though I don't like to admit it. Still, this still crops up from time to time. I had a good friend just tell me he noticed that my symptoms seem to have abated lately.
I think it's true that as you get older and start dealing with your crap, symptoms do subside. I'm kind of in denial though. I want to tell myself this isn't me anymore, but it is. Even if I am better at hiding it now. But I still get caught up in the roles I play some times. But TBH, I still don't know who I am some times. I was dx'd with Hpd during my first visit to a mental hospital. Before 4 years ago (when I was first diagnosed with a PD), I never bothered to look inside myself or introspect. And I admit, looking inside myself and facing my feelings has been the hardest thing I've ever had to do. Last edited by anonymous50007; Nov 21, 2017 at 02:30 AM.. |
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