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Magnate
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Aug 20, 2018 at 10:32 PM
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Making me doubt my ability to move out. I owe 110 a month for 2 years to disability. I now have to pay my medicare bill 134 a month it was being covered. And insurance through the county 134 a month.
I have stuff I need to cancel and I owe my brother 150 a month for 2 years. He bought me a car I'm still paying for, its long gone. Life insurance for my daughter because I dreamt she died at age 16. 33 a month she just turned 16. Gas food car washes live on a dirt road. Cell phone 75 a month. At mom's with working I can save 100 mo. Moving out no more saving and I'm not sure if i can make it work. Finances stress me out. __________________ Son: 14, 12/15/2009 R.I.P.  Daughter: 20  Diagnosis: Bipolar with Psychosis. Latuda 100 mgs. |
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Poohbah
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Aug 21, 2018 at 12:02 PM
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Avisa going back and forth about moving out or not must be exhausting. One thing is for sure you are always going to owe money. If you really want to move out there are ways to make it all work. It might be time to commit to moving out or staying put.
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Aug 25, 2018 at 06:05 AM
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Subsidized housing is doable
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Magnate
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Sep 01, 2018 at 08:28 PM
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Well my medical is being covered again! My mom and I got scammed so now I owe her money and depleated my savings. But I re-checked my budget and things aren't as bad as they seem. I'm adding her to my payment schedule. Redid my budget, and I think I'll be okay.
Edited I reported the scammer to the feds. I want him not to hurt anyone else. __________________ Son: 14, 12/15/2009 R.I.P. Daughter: 20 Diagnosis: Bipolar with Psychosis. Latuda 100 mgs. Last edited by Aviza; Sep 01, 2018 at 09:56 PM.. |
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Elder
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Sep 12, 2018 at 01:33 PM
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As a friendly suggestion I would not advise you to pay “ANYONE” money in cash. It will be their word against your word saying you never paid them back. I’ve borrowed money from my mom years ago. However we both bank with the same bank. When I had the money to pay her back. I transferred it to her account that way I had a record. Then I texted her the screenshot. I trust no one period. People will try to get over on you when it comes to money. Watch Judge Judy
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Magnate
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Sep 13, 2018 at 06:14 PM
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Well I pay her by check each month and we bith bank at the same bank. I suppose I could do a transfer by bill pay works just fine.
__________________ Son: 14, 12/15/2009 R.I.P. Daughter: 20 Diagnosis: Bipolar with Psychosis. Latuda 100 mgs. |
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