The other night with the backbone of alcohol...we called everyone that matters and said that we are so like transgendered....as if it wasn't obvious. This doesn't mean we are running down to the closest SRS clinic and getting fixed.

Its just an admission of the denial.

[Rand.]

Congrats on that big step! Were they surprised?

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Originally Posted by Rand.

Congrats on that big step! Were they surprised?

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Ummm. No. Actually they were like okay, whatever. And all these years I lived in fear.

[Skeezyks]

The Skeezyks did this, sort of, following his last suicide attempt... except there was hardly anyone to tell. Still, he thought the earth would move under his feet. But the reality was nobody cared one way or the other. They just wanted him to continue to be the person they'd always known him to be... & they were determined to treat him that way. As a result he just ended up feeling exposed & foolish. He tiptoed back into the closet & closed the door. End of story.

[Rand.]

AlwaysChanging, I'm glad it turned out okay then. At least you have done it now. I'm happy you have found some freedom there. Coming out is more often than not something you can never tell how people will react until you do it - a lot of times even they themselves won't know.

Skeezyks, does this mean they did not accept your identity?

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We are transitioning mtf mentally because we are fem then male as we tried to hide in and its chaos.

We are scared.

The guys only like it because they are horny.

The partner calls us abusive names.

Society is snickering at us.

My inner abusers are hating on me/us.

This is so new and weve lived a life long series of abuse, in and out. I best not quit my prozac.

Skeezyks...you are okay. Better than you actually predicted hon.

It's good that you have been supported this far.

I know I came out as ftm and most people have been accepting of it. There are still a few people I have yet to tell because I'm scared of their reactions. Mostly my fiance's parents. I had a friend outright question my sexuality and then tell me I'm not trans. I cut her out of my life for it.

Originally Posted by EliasMason

It's good that you have been supported this far.

I know I came out as ftm and most people have been accepting of it. There are still a few people I have yet to tell because I'm scared of their reactions. Mostly my fiance's parents. I had a friend outright question my sexuality and then tell me I'm not trans. I cut her out of my life for it.

Sherry:

Congrats on your courage and doings.

The only area that has me nervous is work. We just started a new job, and you know construction guys, all macho and stuff. But they already see us as weird...the comments, the looks....we have to wear uniforms so its not how I dress, but more as we fems pop out and become known, but still.