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May 26, 2012, 09:52 AM
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Why is it that woman can go with out sex ,like it doesn't matter at all
 I say W T F  ,recently my wife an my self has had FAMILY problems,seems my punishment is no kissing ,touching,and SEX. Also she says I am like a teenager in a bad way, always wanting sex,hmmmm I am 41 is that a bad thing to want sex when we alone, when she only in a tea shirt flashing HER PANTIES  or when she dresses in front of me or even takes a shower with me W T F WHAT GIVES THIS HAPPEN TO ANYONE ELSE HERE???
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May 29, 2012, 08:02 PM
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Wow must only be me, my bad,maybe I am the foolish 1 not my wife.Just seems she is teasing me all the time must be a mid life crises or something on my part.
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May 29, 2012, 11:43 PM
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It's probably not just you that has issues with their spouses.
Have you both tried communicating about the issue? Many couples find it hard to do at first because they get angry at what is going on. But if you can, try and get relaxed, get comfortable, be patient, and talk to her. Try and discuss the issues going on calmly, and hopefully she will be more comfortable and open to you and explain what is going on. It may help. It may not, I don't know, but it is definitely worth a shot.
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May 30, 2012, 08:33 PM
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Will give it a shot ,we been having a rough go at it, My patience are shot.41 and helpless I feel sucks thanks for response DocClyde
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May 31, 2012, 08:00 PM
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Now she wearing cloths that she normal not wear very reviling oh man,trying to ignore not working very well,I trying god it is hard so hard not to respond to her she makes me melt.
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Jun 07, 2012, 01:32 AM
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It sounds like your wife is quite the tease. Good luck.
Last edited by DocClyde; Jun 07, 2012 at 02:40 PM. |
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Jun 20, 2012, 05:12 PM
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I brought to her attention things she was doing, confronted her ,she was try to get my attention come to find out wow strange but wahooo I guess ignoring really did work lol real good.
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Jun 20, 2012, 08:11 PM
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Hope things are going better now then.
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Dec 30, 2012, 01:22 AM
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Are you getting some regurally now? I hope so.
Your situation certainly isn't unique in that my wife seemed to lose her sex drive the day we said "I do". What's up with that? It's like a fight most times to get her to submit... and then she talks like it's one more thing on her "to do" list. It's not like she doesn't get anything out of it because I make good and sure she gets hers as well. But when we do finally have sex, she wants it done and over with... like we can't spend any time just fooling around and being playful. But then I'm supposed to just appreciate the fact that she "opened the gate" to begin with and shut up about it. Whatever... Anybody else relate?
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May 01, 2013, 01:21 PM
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Thor,
Short story; in a dysfunctional relationship, then marriage for 21 years. Mr. Johnson stopped working about three years ago after years of my wife telling me how she doesn't like sex or doesn't need sex or thinks we can have a good marriage without sex. If bipolar wasn't bad enough, now I've gone from a guy that never had trouble functioning, sexually, to a guy who doesn't feel like a man. She doesn't bother me about it and I think she's secretly glad that I don't 'bother' her. I have a friend in a similar situation and he started hooking up with women who he met while working and he told me, with them, he can do it like he did when he was 25. (I'm 63, he's 65) Sex isn't all below the waist or testosterone levels. |
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