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Post Feb 17, 2013 at 03:02 AM
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I have become so socially awkward over the past few years. I don't know what to say to people or how to act. I try to be funny but it ends up hurting people. I just prefer to be alone then with people and my dad is a strong believer in social skills and behavior. but I just cant do it. I truthfully don't like people. I do talk to people from school threw texts and sometimes in person. but im more comfortable alone and that doesn't happen in school. I prefer to stay in my room where I feel safest. I want to socialize with people but I get really nervous and I start to sweat and stutter. its strange. I used to be a social butterfly but after my year with depression I found myself not knowing how to act around people. I mean I do go over the fire station and talk and laugh their but they are like family to. its just with people my own age. I don't like them. they are just to cruel and immature for my taste. its strange though
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Default Feb 21, 2013 at 11:19 AM
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Do you feel you may be forcing yourself on people, or trying too hard?

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I am just like you. (Sorry for bumping this thread) I know I'm good enough to order food in restaurants or talk over the phone (to buy things) but I'd never chat to anyone if I didn't have to. There's just no appropriate place to do it in. If I needed help in my studies I'd know who to talk to. I am aware that one day I'll no longer be studying and will have to look for a job, so...
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Do you feel you may be forcing yourself on people, or trying too hard?
I don't try. if someone starts to talk to me. I force myself to talk back. if I could I would put head phones in all day and stay in my own world. I prefer talking to older people. I feel more comfortable talking to them
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Default Mar 26, 2013 at 12:57 AM
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Why do you feel more comfortable talking to older people? What makes it more comfortable?

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Why do you feel more comfortable talking to older people? What makes it more comfortable?
to me adults are more understanding and less judgmental.
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Default Mar 27, 2013 at 11:16 PM
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Older adults, in general, or just people that are even a little older than you?

Is a lot of it do you feel that your same classmates do not understand you?

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Older adults, in general, or just people that are even a little older than you?

Is a lot of it do you feel that your same classmates do not understand you?
even if they are a few years older
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Do you feel it is because they are more mature or do they project more maturity to you?

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Do you feel it is because they are more mature or do they project more maturity to you?
I prefer to talk to older people because they are more mature and more understanding then kids my age.
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Perhaps you are more mature than most kids your age as well, then

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