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Oct 19, 2013 at 06:22 AM
#21
It's hard not to envy when you feel behind in the game. It's not that I'm playing my cards wrong, I just wasn't given certain cards to begin with.
At least you were dealt some cards. I wasn't dealt ANY cards. |
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Location: PA
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Dec 08, 2013 at 06:57 PM
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I've never been fond of casual sex. I'm like a woman in that regard. I have to be emotionally invested for it to be its best, especially now that I'm in my forties. So guess what? I don't get any (I'm single) and I don't care too much. But that is a bit harder to cope with in the 20's and 30's.
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Dec 13, 2013 at 01:07 PM
#23
I don't think casual sex is all it's cracked up to be. I'm a man and sure, I want sex all the time, I think that's normal, but I don't allow myself. Ultimately it's just dangerous and a big responsibility. I think having sex with a devoted partner where the sex is about an emotional connection is the only kind of sex that is healthy. I think sex for sex sake is destructive.
Anyway, to the point. I know you don't want to wait but I personally don't think you will get much out of casual sex. It'll feel good for a short while but the moment it's over you will regret it, it's a degrading experience, it will not live up to your expectations, and you will probably be worried about STI's for months after the fact. |
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Dec 13, 2013 at 01:25 PM
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I know I've already posted in this thread but it's still going so...
I have enough experience to know that experience doesn't really count for much. Just be yourself and have interest and respect and things will turn out however they turn out. There is no "key" to women. |
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Dec 14, 2013 at 02:39 PM
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The key to women is accepting that they will never be happy if what you want doesn't fit with what they want. Why? Because wanting something they have nothing to do with is tantamount to cheating. You should never try to take or get what you want. Always let them give it to you. Or at least think they gave it to you or were otherwise somehow involved. As for what they want?....
"Women want roasted ice." -Arab proverb |
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