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Default Oct 02, 2013 at 09:48 AM
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Get over it. If you don't like being stared at then wear a burka. Also don't cover yourself in make up, wear short skirts or hotpants, because it's obvious you're doing it for the attention, otherwise why would you bother?
 

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Default Oct 02, 2013 at 11:33 AM
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That's not always the case though.

My wife is down to a DD cup now (was DDD, but she's lost some weight). She wears bras that minimize her size as much as possible and never wears low cut shirts except around me, but guys stare at her chest all the time. As a matter of fact, one guy that she was helping at one of her jobs never looked up from her chest.

Now the women you describe that wear the hot pants and booty shorts and stuff, they just want certain attention and need to get over themselves.

So the moral to my story would be that if they are doing their best to not draw attention to themselves, but still are pretty or have a large chest or whatnot, it's best to be sensitive to their feelings. But if they are letting the sweater puppies out on the porch then they shouldn't complain when someone calls them out on it.
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Default Oct 02, 2013 at 04:15 PM
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Well the issue is women who wear short skirts or tight fitting tops and then moan when men stare. What do they expect is going to happen? A man's sexual attraction is much more visual.

It's almost impossible for a straight guy to not have a look at a women like this. But then what do they know, they're not men, and to some of them we're just perverts.

It's okay for a women to gawk at a man without a shirt on with a 6 pack though, that's fine.
 
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Default Oct 02, 2013 at 04:22 PM
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Also ladies, about 50 year old married men that stare. Well it's biological, for a man to stare at a healthy young female.

Do you honestly think it's weird for any man to not stare at a hot 20 year old women in a bikini? It's doesn't matter how old he is. All us men do this, it doesn't mean he's going to be a player or cheat on his wife.

I understand there's a difference between a 2 second stare and a 30 second leer. Men who leer are creepy. But staring is natural for men. If a man doesn't stare at you, that's the time you want to worry.
 
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Default Oct 02, 2013 at 04:29 PM
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Women can wear whatever they want, men can look where ever they want.

Don't assume staring is a crime. They law backs me up on this.

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Default Oct 02, 2013 at 04:35 PM
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I'm not talking about 40 year old men staring at children so I'd appreciate it if people didn't twist my words. I'm on about men looking at adult women.

Secondly, I'm not breaking any rules defending my gender/sex, and explaining why us men stare.

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Default Oct 02, 2013 at 04:38 PM
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If a women has issues with a man looking at her for between 2-5 seconds then she's the one with the problem.

Staring for 3 or 4 minutes. Fair enough. Don't apoligise, I don't make the forum rules, just pointing it out. If it wasn't for these silly rules, then quite a few women would be in for a verbal *** kicking in their own forum. I won't stand for men to be accused of being assholes, perverts or sick for looking at a woman. That's what we do.

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Default Oct 02, 2013 at 08:07 PM
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Someone in the women's forum is living up to her username very well. No I didn't read that thread because it was about nipples. I don't look at women's nipples I stare at their *** instead. Not all of us men are into breast. Just tired of the misandry. It's stark raving mad I tell you.
 
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Default Oct 02, 2013 at 08:22 PM
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Yeah she really is stark raving mad. I last visited this site hours ago. Funny how she's the 2nd women to twist my words into suggesting I think it's okay to stare at underage children. I've never suggested this, but it does suggest that these women do view all men as perverts.

Blatant misandrists with daddy issues.
 
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Default Oct 02, 2013 at 09:08 PM
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Sorry for looking at the profile of someone who's obviously stark raving mad.
 
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Default Oct 03, 2013 at 10:11 AM
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Hey, women look at and appreciate a good looking guy, too. We had a pool workout back in July, all the women were staring at the fit young PT in swimming trunks. A compliment for a guy who works hard to stay in peak physical condition.
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Default Oct 03, 2013 at 12:56 PM
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After reading this utter horse crap that has been written on this thread I have to put my 2 cents in.

First, a real man doesn't stare at a woman no matter what she may or may not have on. A boy does, a child does. A man doesn't. A man has enough respect for that woman and for himself and if he is with a woman, the woman he is with.

Thinking that the way a woman dresses or if she has make-up on is very misogynistic. It is unbelievable that kind of thinking still lives in the 21st century.

Second, why was that thread taken so personally? Obviously you have a guilty conscious. I once read, "that it is a spiritual axiom that whenever we are disturbed there is something wrong with us." So, what is it about that thread that really upset you? What, woman aren't aloud to wear what they want?
 
 
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Default Oct 03, 2013 at 01:50 PM
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I never said women aren't allowed to wear what they want. It's not misogynistic at all, if a women wears a skirt up her *** then men will look, if she's dressed in a trenchcoat it's less likely to draw attention. Common sense really, something you seem to lack. And don't give me this white knight nonsense that real men don't look at an attractive looking woman walking by.

BTW this thread was started because I'm tired of reading misandrist shite.

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Default Oct 03, 2013 at 02:26 PM
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So, I have a fix for you, I'll even buy your plane ticket. Move to the middle east!!!!

A real man controls himself.

And I have a cure for you being tired of reading what you term misandrist shite. DON'T READ IT!
 
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Default Oct 03, 2013 at 02:36 PM
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A real man controls himself by looking at the floor? As far as I'm aware a real man keeps his head held high. That means looking in his surroundings, and unfortunately, woman are often in the vicinity.

A find it hilarious though how, we've had so many people, especially on that other thread, try to twist what I said.

1. If a woman wears a short skirt or hotpants ( I use these as examples), then it will draw attention whether she likes it or not. If a women is more covered up it's less likely to get this sort of attention.

2. Men's sexuality is more visual based.

3. I said a 2-5 second stare is normal, not leering or following a woman around to get a peek.

Real men don't look at women? Whatever next? The sky is green and the grass is blue.
 
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Default Oct 03, 2013 at 10:48 PM
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I am now closing this thread. Please do not start this thread back up again.

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