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Default May 01, 2014 at 04:34 PM
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Anyone else here would have a problem coming home after working a 12 hour shift and being told that if you want supper you make it? Just trying to reach out to other men who share my fate. She worked a whopping 3 hours and I have to cook! Seriously! Share your thoughts please.

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Default May 01, 2014 at 05:24 PM
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Is there anything wrong with her. If she is pretty normal than she is not just lazy, she is uncaring.
Is this a trend? Is she trying to send a message.
If she hates the 12 hour shift she may be deliberately making your life hell to get you to stop. If that, however, is not the case than trade her in. If she is forty, go grab 2 twenty year olds. Fifty, get to 25 year olds.
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Default May 01, 2014 at 08:09 PM
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Anyone else here would have a problem coming home after working a 12 hour shift and being told that if you want supper you make it? Just trying to reach out to other men who share my fate. She worked a whopping 3 hours and I have to cook! Seriously! Share your thoughts please.

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that's a problem..
something has got to be done about that

seriously

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Default May 01, 2014 at 11:29 PM
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. She worked a whopping 3 hours and I have to cook! Seriously! Share your thoughts please.
Does she put out at least?
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Default Jul 21, 2014 at 04:03 PM
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My first wife was a total lazy *** I would work 8 to 16 hour shifts just to be sure we had enough money to survive. She would sit on her non working butt all day doing nothing. When I would get off work I would have to make my own meals and stuff the only good I have to say about her was she was excellent in bed. Oh well we only lasted a year before I filled for divorce.

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Default Jul 23, 2014 at 09:46 AM
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My ex was very lazy, didn't work, was horrible at keeping the house clean, felt that I should do "at least half of the housework" even though I have two jobs.

And to Illegal Toilet's point, NO she didn't even "put out" I'm so much better off without her, though I am paying a crippling amount in alimony.

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