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Apr 06, 2007 at 10:17 PM
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dudes there is something wrong with me, i want to screw, no really i do, in the last 2 days i pulled 2 tourists, both female americans, both in there low 20's i spent the whole day with taking one around london today, was all set up, couldnt do it, what the %#@&#! is wrong with me? the words on a plate do not do it justice, me and little man went home, what the heck am i waiting for?, who do i think is going to be the one for me?, answers on a postcard please, i
know what i want, or who i want, and nothing else will do, but should i really give up the chance of 20 somethings inbetween? dude klil me i am %#@&#!.ed up. i wish my mental health was healthy, the reason i say that is i want them to hurt has much has i am, but i cant do that, to them or me, either way i am screwed, or not, guys i need your advice should i go for it with these girls or wait for the woman i want? |
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Apr 08, 2007 at 06:54 AM
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is the woman you want single ? does she feel the same about you ?
or the answer is no to these then how do you know one of these women are not the one...... or have you not meet her yet ? again one of those women may be the one......... off the record, (lol) go for it my son....... but explain to them its only a one nighter ( if thats what you want ) dec __________________  lifes a game, i no longer wish to play
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Apr 09, 2007 at 11:01 AM
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Mellors
If you feel attracted to these women and they are attracted to you then give it a go. I dont agree with one night stands as such, so i wouldnt advise you either way...But because you feel like this doesnt mean you are wrong or "*#@!ed up" at all. Maybe you should consider being less hard on yourself and allowing your actions to take place. Just make sure its what the women want as well... I think the reason you "couldnt do it" was because you know deep down that one-night stands are not the way to go to find "the one"...you wont know by sleeping with somebody whether they are "the one" or not, that comes with time after getting to know them...one night will not tell you what you need to know... If i was in your shoes, i would pass up the chance of a one-night stand, instead i would spend time with them to get to know them and after a while, when it feels a bit more comfortable, thats when you progress...maybe im old fashioned in my opinions, but im just stating what i would do, from a man's point of view... Simon |
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May 12, 2007 at 01:34 PM
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just to keep you all up to date, i took your off the record advice dec, one night stands it has been, enjoyable? yes, running out of excuses to leave?, yes, ( i never bring them back to mine, it resembles the squat occupied by the cast of trainspotting, but condensed into a 12 foot by 12 foot room) made any friends? no, been left standing? yes, net result, nothing gained, dignity lost.
once more onto the breach................... |
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May 12, 2007 at 03:27 PM
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I say you do what you wanna do, as long as the pros outweigh the cons. I'd probably be doing exactly what you are.
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May 12, 2007 at 07:34 PM
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nice to hear from you, its been a long time............. one night stands ok as long as no-one gets hurt. do your lady friends how you feel. ? dec __________________ lifes a game, i no longer wish to play
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May 16, 2007 at 07:55 PM
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one night stands are not me, they have never been me, it does not compute, s3 is doing this, he is supposed to help me, he is not helping, yes we are getting the endorphofines from sex which 2 or 3 of you have said i need. should i be happy?
or iam i just whoering myself out ?, kill me, i dont feel any better, in fact i feel worse, i feel like i am using that person as a object, what does that say about me? not good, i give up, i quit, dont ask me for advice, dont ask me for a opinion, just dont ask me anything, if you know me you know i like to answer questions, this time just leave me alone, dont do it, dont ask, dont think about it, move on, if you do have questions, make sure your *** is covered in kevlar first before you respond, americanism, loaded for bear is about right in the way i feel at the moment, you have been warned |
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May 17, 2007 at 04:26 PM
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mellor,
i heed your warning .............. you are angry at the moment , i only know what you write, but what i have read tells me you are a guy with so much pain, you share so much to us here., and i wont forsake you when your angry and hurting............. if you want to blast me for replying, then go ahead. but do it in a pm so you dont get in trouble here. you are a wise bloke that i look up to, with your poetry and the strength you have towards your son. you are not a bad person, your just angry at the moment dec __________________ lifes a game, i no longer wish to play
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May 18, 2007 at 08:59 PM
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ok, horny is a physical condition that must be satisfied
if we're lucky it's accompanied by strong personal feelings for the person as well, but it is not a requirement. you titled it "horny" you didn't say lonely there's a difference |
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May 18, 2007 at 10:58 PM
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Mellors, sounds like you need to fall in love and have a committed relationship. For now you can enjoy some fun, adventurous masturbation, but keep your eyes on what you really want. 1 night stands are not for everyone.
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May 20, 2007 at 12:05 PM
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adventurous masturbation? dude, back away from the medical journals,
i will say it again in a disbelieving vocal tone, adventurous masturbation? is there any other type? dude i could write a book on adventurious wanking if only my wrists didnt hurt so much |
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