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#21
I feel the same way, I'm 37 and I feel that there is nothing for me to do. I have social phobia and have spent my whole adult life without friends. I am uneducated and I haven't worked much.
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#23
Sometimes it is really bad, and all the platitudes, and advice are just spurious grunts. I'm facing that now, the dark realization that there is nothing to look forward to, that the remainder of my days is grueling struggle. Hoping those days are short.
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I'm also not even sure what it was that brought me back from those dark thoughts. And my life is no example of perfection, I can tell you that. __________________ My business is to teach my aspirations to conform themselves to fact, not to try and make facts harmonise with my aspirations. T.H. Huxley Last edited by shakespeare47; Sep 30, 2015 at 08:04 AM.. |
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I don't have sleep apnea, but I still feel fatigued at times (I even got tested for sleep apnea) and overwhelmed by negative thoughts.
I can see how having sleep apnea would make things even more difficult. __________________ My business is to teach my aspirations to conform themselves to fact, not to try and make facts harmonise with my aspirations. T.H. Huxley |
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#27
Just hoping I die soon. I hate living; I always have.
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Does it help to think about what you would do if time and money were not issues?
I think about it sometimes. And I make changes based on what I would do if time and money were not issues in any way. __________________ My business is to teach my aspirations to conform themselves to fact, not to try and make facts harmonise with my aspirations. T.H. Huxley |
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There is also the argument that much of who we are is a performance. We are characters that we develop.
I think about what kind of person I would be, if I could develop any type of character I wanted. I've found it isn't enough to want it, I need to do something to make it a reality. __________________ My business is to teach my aspirations to conform themselves to fact, not to try and make facts harmonise with my aspirations. T.H. Huxley Last edited by shakespeare47; Oct 08, 2015 at 12:26 PM.. |
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Time and money are issues. I am chronically fatigued, and I have to work for a living.
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#31
life can be very bleak at times i know how you feal in a way but life wont come to you that much i have learnt
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Hi Noctuary,
Sleep is your number goal right now. In your shoes, I'd go to my doctor and keep returning until it's sorted out. Without sleep, you will become ever more depressed. You HAVE to sleep. Once that's achieved then all the other goals in life can be explored. |
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Hi Noctuary,
I've been thinking about you and while what i said is true that sleep is your number one goal, to overcome apnea you probably need to lose weight. What is your height and weight? |
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