PLEASE HELP! Pregnancy scare from fingering with precum and dry-humping with panties

First off I want to state that this might be a little long but PLEASE read the entire thing as I am freaking out. Hello, I am an 18 year old male and my girlfriend is 21 years old. Before this entire ordeal I had urinated twice since my last ejaculation(which was the day before) and I did not ejaculate at all during this whole encounter.This all started 10-14 days ago when me and my gf were fooling around. First we were dry-humping probably for around 4-7 minutes, while dry humping she was wearing only panties and I was completely nude. I rubbed my penis on the outside of her vagina(with the panties on of course) then kept dry humping. I am a bit worried that pre-cum may have seeped through her panties and had sperm or maybe her panties shifted to the side somehow. After the dry-humping, we had manual sex, She was giving me a handjob and I was fingering her. However I had touched my penis which had a significant amount of pre-cum that I instantly wiped on my thigh then started fingering her about 1-2 mins later. After remembering that my hand had pre-cum I was struck with fear, me and her have been worrying non stop because she did not get her period for 11 days(her period was due on October 17th and her previous one was Sept 17-21 on a 30 day cycle she is usually like clockwork and always on time) Since then she was been having cramps and back pain but no period. Me and her have been on the internet non-stop trying to find info and I think it is taking a toll on both of us. I have not been able to do much schoolwork or study at all because I keep thinking "what if..". Today, I decided that we have been worrying too much over this and seeing that her period has been late for 11 days I went over to CVS and picked up a "First Response Early Result" pregnancy test and she took it today(following all instructions completely), it was NEGATIVE, this test says that it can give results 6 days before an expected period so I am wondering if it would be an accurate result. She has never had a late or missed period and that is why we are both really freaking out, me and her have been missing out on sleep because of this. On the back of the test it states that it has a ">99% accuracy when taken one day before a missed period" but she took it 11 days after it was already late would that mean that it is accurate? Thank you so much for reading all of this, we are both dying with fear and I feel that I cannot study or do the things I enjoy until she gets her period. Once I saw the negative result I felt very relieved, but that has rapidly faded and here I am worrying again that she may be pregnant. Somewhere in the back of my head I keep thinking what if this and what if that. You have no idea how grateful I am to be able to ask such a great community for help. So what is her pregnancy risk if any and why?

Hey man.

It's very unlikely that she's pregnant, though not impossible. I'm not entirely knowledgeable about women's menstruation, but I know my girlfriends period sometimes varies more widely than other women and it's unpredictable when her period will do this, just because she hasn't had it yet doesn't mean she won't have it. There's not much else you can do at this point other than wait until she can take a more accurate test (or she gets her period), but even if she is pregnant it's not the end of the world. There are plenty of options if you both decide you don't want the child.

Whatever the case is, take this as a learning experience. You've gotta be really careful in sexual encounters because if you do happen to get a girl pregnant you're stuck on the hook for 18 years of child support and you have NO SAY in whether she keeps it or not. As a man, you are at her mercy in terms of pregnancy.

Hope you get some good news, and maybe you should start discussing what options you two may want to pursue if she is pregnant (abortion, adoption, signing guardianship to a family member).

Good luck man, I know how scary this can be. Keep us updated.

Thanks, your reassuring words mean a lot to me. I still have 2 "First Response Early Result" pregnancy tests left over as the kit had 3 of them. I'm gonna have her take another tomorrow on Monday, which means that she will be 16 days late by then if she doesn't get it. I'll post the result and keep you posted on the situation. Once again thanks for the nice words

One would need deep penetration to shoot their sperm up the uterus so they can swim to the eggs, so fingering around the rim of the vagina is most likely not really going to get a women pregnant. Wear a condom to just be sure, or keep it all oral.

Yes pregnancy is a scare, especially at 18.

Just an update, I had her take another pregnancy test today, and it came out negative, considering that she is 18-19 days late I hope that she is not pregnant. I am just stressing out that she still hasn't gotten her period, and she usually always gets it right on time.

I don't know if you may take this as a bad option, but why don't you talk to your girlfriend and ask her to take pill of the day after. I know it's bad for her, as it may cause weird symptoms and mess with her hormones(I think, not sure). Hope she doesn't end up pregnant, you 2 are too young to have this responsibility. Good luck bro!

She could go to a gynecologist in order to understand what happened to her period.

It sounds like you had your sexual encounter around the same time that she was supposed to have her period anyway, not so?

That would reduce the possibility of falling pregnant a lot, as the ovulation (egg-release) cycle falls in the middle of two periods.

Somewhere, something is amiss. Are you sure she didn't have her period just before you guys did your thing? Or that something happened that you guys didn't notice it somehow?

Do you actually observe (by physically looking at her "down there") that she hasn't had her period, or are you taking what she is saying at face-value?

I don't want to appear like a horrible person who sees the "darker-side" of things, but, maybe there is something else going on here, not to do with her period or anything physical at all.

I know it's a horrible thought, I'm sorry, but you must consider possible dishonesty about stuff.