Why she constantly needs to make me jealous?

cureav · Feb 23, 2016 at 12:04 PM

I am seeing one girl and she constantly makes hints of how some other guy did something for her, she suggests that we go out and she dresses herself provocative so I could notice other guys staring at her, she evokes attention from car drivers... she works 24-7 on new ideas to put me feeling this way.
I told her that I know how jealosy feels and asked her not to do it anymore simply cause I put people that are making me feel bad at distance.
I could do this to her also with other girls, but for me its immature and disrespectful. I can put myself in other people shoes and understand how it feels.
Do you have any ideas how can I make her understand that I don't like it? Seems to me, I've seen too many red flags and did nothing...
Thanks

Skeezyks · Feb 29, 2016 at 04:47 PM

Hello cureav: From what you wrote, it doesn't sound to me as though this girl is the love of your life. I agree with you that her behavior is immature & disrespectful. Something is driving her to seek attention in the ways she is doing. And only she can do what needs to be done to figure out what that is... if she chooses to do so. If she does not, then there's little you can do to make her change. The leopard cannot change it's spots. It sounds as though you have expressed your concerns to the best of your ability. So if she chooses to still do those things that concern you, my thought would be that it may be time to rethink this relationship. My best wishes to you...

Webgoji · Mar 02, 2016 at 10:51 AM

Sounds like she's one of those women that play games to "test" their partner. Which is a reason to move on. Games are for children and Playstation.

CoffeeLove · Mar 03, 2016 at 04:44 AM

Sounds to me like the poor lass has low self esteem issues which must play havoc with her own well being at some level, if she is physically loyal to you then perhaps the relationship needs some more effort from both of you to help smooth things over, if you feel you cannot continue coping with her behaviour and you have discussed how you are feeling with her then perhaps it is time to move on but I couldn't recommend you do so without thinking long and hard about things. If you really love this girl and if she is worth going that extra mile then try to stick with it and maybe seek out some counselling for you both, once you turn your back on someone it is often too late to go back to them, I would consider how you can repair your relationship before giving up on her.

CrimsonSigmaRick · Apr 03, 2016 at 11:55 AM

From my knowledge, she's either **** testing you, or she wants to leave the relationship. Analyze your situation some more and you'll probably reach one of those conclusions.

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Webgoji Grand Magnate Member Since Aug 2013 Location: Wichita, Ks Posts: 3,535 11 993 hugs given	Mar 02, 2016 at 10:51 AM #3 Sounds like she's one of those women that play games to "test" their partner. Which is a reason to move on. Games are for children and Playstation. __________________ Helping to create a kinder, gentler world by flinging poo.
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CrimsonSigmaRick Junior Member Member Since Apr 2016 Location: In my bubble Posts: 13 8	Apr 03, 2016 at 11:55 AM #5 From my knowledge, she's either **** testing you, or she wants to leave the relationship. Analyze your situation some more and you'll probably reach one of those conclusions.
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