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Oct 31, 2007 at 07:33 AM
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How do you get over someone that has spent a large majority of their life with you? How do you just look at that person and say I am really sorry that I could not be the husband you wanted me to be? My wife has separated from me due to anger that I was dealing with. Since I have been gone I have spent every waking moment trying to fix myself. I know that I have changed, but she needs to know that I have changed. I just wish that my T could just wave a magic wand and say poof everything is fixed. Sorry if I am just going on and on. This woman has been in my life for over 18 years and means the world to me.
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Oct 31, 2007 at 01:34 PM
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this is an attempt to make you laugh, this is only an attempt...
lots of alcohol... a few other illicit activities helped me a lot... i made, and you will too dragonphoto... do you have a dream in your life, other than getting back with your wife? having that has helped me a lot... and no, it's not a wet dream... you can make it, or, if you want an affirmation, put it this way... you are making it... |
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Oct 31, 2007 at 01:41 PM
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Thank you, you did make me laugh.
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Oct 31, 2007 at 01:48 PM
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take it easy man, as mere men, according to a current religious text, we are forgiven our sins... it is fine to aspire to perfection, but if there's an aim and a miss, there can be forgiveness... true?
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Oct 31, 2007 at 01:59 PM
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Wow that was great. Nice line.
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Oct 31, 2007 at 02:00 PM
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I wish I could answer that myself...I still long for my ex-wife and step son and others who went my way and left the same...sometimes its great to grieve, yet it doesnt bring that person back either...
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Oct 31, 2007 at 03:33 PM
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The fact i've been divorced nearly 8 years now, still cant let go that she is not comming back, the fact that she is having a baby, due date soon, to the man she left me for, the fact he has brought up my son whilst i have not been well enough to be there everyday still hasnt registered fully i dont think on some levels.
But like i, you will get past it eventually, bit by bit you will get there, keep going your heading in the right direction. |
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Nov 03, 2007 at 06:14 PM
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when my wife left for some "personal" time i found out later she had met and married a new guy, pregnant with the first of five... all while promising me we would "work it out" and before we even started our divorce...
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