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My wife and I divorced last October. I moved out and we sold our home almost a year ago. I have periodic contact, mainly just her coming to take our dog a few days at a time. We were together 8 years and married for 6 years.
I think I have cried every day for almost a year. The main issue, I think, was not having enough sex with her, although I thought it was more often tha0n she claims it was (maybe once a week). Now, every day I live with regret for not trying harder to make her happy and I just cannot move on. Of course, the idea of her moving on with someone else exacerbates my pain and anxiety. I try to exercise and shift my focus, but I am still just a mess. Just reaching out if anyone has any tips. Thanks in advance. |
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Hello scor: I see this is your first post here on PC. Welcome to Psych Central.
![]() https://psychcentralforums.com/coping-with-emotions/ And then here are links to 4 articles, from Psych Central's archives, on the subject of healing following divorce (there are more) plus a link to an article that discusses healing from emotional wounds: Shocked that Your Spouse Left? Here's the Secret to Recovery The Differences in Divorce for Men and Women Love, Heartbreak & How to Recover How To Deal With Depression After Divorce: 5 Actionable Tips https://blogs.psychcentral.com/imper...tional-wounds/ I hope you find PC to be of benefit. ![]() __________________ "I may be older but I am not wise / I'm still a child's grown-up disguise / and I never can tell you what you want to know / You will find out as you go." (from: "A Nightengale's Lullaby" - Julie Last) |
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