Lost My Wife to Menopause & Her Therapist

My wife has been seeing a therapist who refuses to see me and believes all of what my wife tells her. I finally read my wife journal and in it were horrible lies and twisted info. Her therapist, who has never met me, has labeled me a dry drunk and emotional abuser with anger-management problems and suggests I suffer from some as-yet personality disorder!

If only you could see hidden -camera footage of how we really interact and how irrational and maliously my wife treats me you'd be stund I am quit certain.
I'm not meek and don't take the mistreatment sitting down. And then that's used a father proof of that I'm a wicked and uncaring sociopath or whatever diagnosis this hidden "therapist" then conjurs up by reading tea leaves. Again, this Social Worker therapist/witch doctor has never met me.

My wife suffers from seasonal and menopausal depression. She is truly irrational and now vulnerable to the horribly misguided manipulations of her individual therapist.

PS. My wife is part of a rather conservative and very humble sect of a church. She is also capable of showing selfishness and rather brutal lack of empathy. She cannot square these insideous personal shortcomings with the teachings of the church. She lies to all she knows about how horrible is her husband. But the most destructive of her lies are the one she tells herself.

Hello RockyMax: Welcome to Psych Central. The Relationships & Communication forum, here on PC, may also be of interest to you. Here's a link:

https://psychcentralforums.com/relat...communication/

And then here are links to 2 articles, from Psych Central's archives, that may be of interest:

The Female Malignant Narcissist is Just as Dangerous as Her Male Counterpart

6 Traits Of Female Sociopaths

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