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Jul 30, 2009, 08:41 AM
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My Beloved Godmother is coming to town and staying with us for 4 days. She doesn't know about my extreme germ phobia and all the rules and rituals i have.
It is imperative that i tell her to stay out of the kitchen(i'll prepare all meals and snacks for her), otherwise she will touch stuff and contaminate my food and I won’t be able to eat. I don’t know how to tell her without #1 looking like a freak and #2 hurting her feelings by essentially saying—you are dirty. Any suggestions?
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Jul 30, 2009, 02:26 PM
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Tell her you suffer from a condition called OCD. Explain to her what it is, try to help her understand as much as she can, so she doesn't get the wrong end of the stick, and so maybe she could help you more with it. Try to remain calm throughout, as being calm does help. Remember; she's your godmother, and she'll love you either way, so don't be ashamed of sharing this with her, who knows? It may open a door for you...
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#3
Jul 30, 2009, 05:10 PM
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((((Berries)))) I do not have an answer for you but I wanted to assure you, you are not, I repeat, you are not a freak. Hugs for your day.
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#4
Jul 30, 2009, 06:14 PM
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Quote:
 Pup
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#5
Aug 01, 2009, 05:06 AM
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I agree with Pup. I find it uncomfortable to tell some people about my OCD, but some people are understanding.
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#6
Aug 01, 2009, 12:35 PM
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I told my Godmother and she has been very supportive and understanding and, so far, hasn't treated me any differently than ever before.
Thank you Pup, Alaskan and Maven!!
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Aug 05, 2009, 01:46 AM
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That's so wonderful to hear!
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#8
Aug 08, 2009, 08:40 PM
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Thats so good Berries. Telling people the truth often is the right approach. I am glad it worked out for you
 Lorna
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