Home Menu

Menu


Reply
Thread Tools Display Modes
  #1  
Old Jul 31, 2014, 01:25 PM
Lupa Lupa is offline
Newly Joined
 
Member Since: Apr 2013
Location: UK
Posts: 1
I get so frustrated that the things I want to do gets delayed or put on hold because of OCD. I start having thoughts that I wont have as much time as other people to achieve my goals and get depressed.

How do others manage losing the time it takes to do your obsessions and compulsions to more important things you want to do in life?

advertisement
  #2  
Old Aug 01, 2014, 10:23 AM
CANDC's Avatar
CANDC CANDC is offline
Super Moderator
Community Support Team
Community Liaison
Chat Leader
 
Member Since: May 2014
Location: Northeast USA New England
Posts: 18,409
Lupa, an executive was asked the reason for her success. The exec said: "I sit down and make a list of the top 10 things I have to do. Then I number them 1-10 in the order of priority. Then I start working on number one. When I get to the end of the day if I haven't completed #1 I work on it the next day. If I finish early, I start on #2."
It impressed me how simple this is - even I can do that! lol
  #3  
Old Aug 01, 2014, 11:22 AM
Perna's Avatar
Perna Perna is offline
Pandita-in-training
 
Member Since: Sep 2006
Location: Maryland
Posts: 27,289
Hi, Lupa, welcome to PsychCentral (PC). I use my negative thoughts and habits to help me where I can by figuring out how to work around them. I could never read my textbooks because of anxiety so I switched to writing and surfing the Web about those subjects. Now I write better because of all that practice and I'm an excellent researcher and I got A's in my subjects when I was in school.

I do not know what your goals are but it sounds like you are concerned about time. I would think of ways to use time "differently", so you learn to do complicated math or accounting problems at the grocery store or create a situation like Barbara Ehrenreich did in her book Barbara Ehrenreich | Nickel and Dimed and deliberately do not-so-fun activities to get somewhere larger.
__________________
"Never give a sword to a man who can't dance." ~Confucius
  #4  
Old Aug 01, 2014, 02:42 PM
Feluram Feluram is offline
Junior Member
 
Member Since: Jul 2014
Location: India
Posts: 10
Quote:
Originally Posted by Lupa View Post
I get so frustrated that the things I want to do gets delayed or put on hold because of OCD. I start having thoughts that I wont have as much time as other people to achieve my goals and get depressed.

How do others manage losing the time it takes to do your obsessions and compulsions to more important things you want to do in life?
@Lupa We don't get the time back, we spend on OCD..to put it bluntly. Our priorities suffer as we are constantly distracted and productivity also goes down. But as we get it sorted, we can work for the lost time. May be reaching our goals get delayed, still we can reach it if we truly want.
OCD isn't a part-time distraction, it can cause more trouble if we carry on with the suffering.
Reply
Views: 558

attentionThis is an old thread. You probably should not post your reply to it, as the original poster is unlikely to see it.




All times are GMT -5. The time now is 01:37 PM.
Powered by vBulletin® — Copyright © 2000 - 2025, Jelsoft Enterprises Ltd.




 

My Support Forums

My Support Forums is the online community that was originally begun as the Psych Central Forums in 2001. It now runs as an independent self-help support group community for mental health, personality, and psychological issues and is overseen by a group of dedicated, caring volunteers from around the world.

 

Helplines and Lifelines

The material on this site is for informational purposes only, and is not a substitute for medical advice, diagnosis or treatment provided by a qualified health care provider.

Always consult your doctor or mental health professional before trying anything you read here.