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Old Jan 17, 2015, 06:53 PM
LackingMentalGPS LackingMentalGPS is offline
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Recently, my sexuality has made me cry, panic, and just get down right sick. I'm not looking to diagnose, but I just need some outside opinion.

I dont want to be gay.
I have no desire to be in a relationship with a girl.
I dont find them sexually attractive.
I know I can love someone like a friend, family, sister.

BUT

I fear that things make me gay/bi
I fear that my friends are proof that I am gay. [Most are gay, bi, pan, etc.]
I fear that because I write characters that are guys in my books as main characters, that that makes me gay.
I fear that loving someone, such as a friend, makes me gay.


Can anyone tell me how I can deal with things like this? I know they're stupid thoughts that arnt mine, but I cant stop thinking about them!
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kaliope

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Old Jan 17, 2015, 07:11 PM
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i think that focusing on your first list solves it for you. when you start obsessing on the second list, counteract it with the first.
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Old Jan 25, 2015, 02:37 PM
Levis Persona Levis Persona is offline
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Are you attracted to men?
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