[jetblackaura]

I have a small problem. On another forum I use, which is my friend's band's forum, there is this person who has graphic SI images in her avatar and it really bothers me. I would tell a moderator and see if they can do anything about changing it, but all the moderator's on the site are people that I actually know and speak to irl. I don't know if i should say anything or not incase they figure me out. What do you guys think?

Can you use the forum or post to it as a guest?

Can you post to the forum from somewhere other than your home computer?

If the above two aren't options for anonymity then go with the following...

...speak up. If this bothers you this much you have a right to voice that concern to the people who moderate the board.

Are you worried that they will think or 'know' you SI if you bring this up?

I'm all for you voicing your concerns but if you wish to do so anonymously I'm not sure how to go about doing it as I'm not familiar with the forum.

gl jba. I think you are wise to trust your instincts to speak up as this bothers you it might bother a lot more who aren't yet able to speak up. Lead the way sweetie!!

[sometimes]

I really don't think people would assume that you SI-ed, just because you didn't like an avator. I find lots of things disturbing myself, and there would be lots of people like that out there. Maybe say something vague like it gives you the creeps rather than it triggers you etc. What kind of person has this as an avator anyway?