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Old Jun 13, 2009, 09:03 AM
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Oksomaybeimnuts' husband is quite ill and will be undergoing surgery soon. She is very worried and needs validation that her fears are reasonable and just.

Good thoughts, positive vibes, and just some general caring and cheering up would be greatly appreciated for my friend.

Silly distractions are always welcome.

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Old Jun 13, 2009, 09:08 AM
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lots of good thoughts and positive vibes comming your way will have to pass on silly distractions later, need to beat trm into making a cuppa
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Old Jun 13, 2009, 11:21 AM
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Old Jun 13, 2009, 12:02 PM
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Old Jun 13, 2009, 12:44 PM
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Old Jun 13, 2009, 01:13 PM
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keeping you in my prayer. It is normal to be worried during serious things.....I think any surgery is stressful & there are always fears especially with a serious illness.

Will keep you in thought & prayer,

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Old Jun 13, 2009, 05:25 PM
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Old Jun 14, 2009, 07:01 AM
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When H was laying for 15 days in ICU we waited for him to be operated on. This song was such a comfort while we waited. A friend would come over a sing it and other comforting songs with me into the wee hours of the morning. It was so calming from the anxiousness of those days. The link is in Videos etc

http://forums.psychcentral.com/showthread.php?t=103956

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Old Jun 14, 2009, 08:49 AM
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hope it all turns out wel - it is ok to be nervous - you are human please take care of you and your husband - sending prayers to the universe for you both
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Old Jun 14, 2009, 03:46 PM
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Hope you are relaxing lil' bud.

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Old Jun 14, 2009, 04:35 PM
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Old Jun 15, 2009, 10:47 AM
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It is not easy to see our loved ones go through all the pain and suffering. We silently wish it was ourself going through their ordeal. That somehow life would be simpler if we were in their place.

All the sorrow and tears are easier when shared with another. So this frog of little brain will sit beside you and help you see it through.

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Just a little chuckle to help brighten your day.

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Old Jun 15, 2009, 10:55 AM
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Sending many hugs and blessings to you and your husband
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Old Jun 15, 2009, 11:24 AM
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Old Jun 16, 2009, 01:11 PM
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Old Jun 16, 2009, 03:16 PM
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Good luck and I hope all goes well for your husband
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Old Jun 16, 2009, 03:36 PM
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Old Jun 17, 2009, 06:53 AM
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my thoughts and prayers are with you and Hubby
your a kind person hope all goes well
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Old Jun 17, 2009, 09:00 AM
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Oksomaybeimnuts thanks everyone for their support. Keep those positive vibes coming!

Today is the surgery. I had to lend her my fingernails to chew because hers are all gone.

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Old Jun 17, 2009, 09:31 AM
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Wishing your hubby the best outcome and
you the strength to take care of him.
You both are in my thoughts
and prayers for as long as you need them.
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Old Jun 18, 2009, 06:40 AM
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Mr. Oksomaybeimnuts had a rough day and night but was doing a little better when Mrs. Nuts left to get a few hours of rest.

Okso will be around soon to update us.
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Old Jun 18, 2009, 07:19 AM
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Old Jun 19, 2009, 10:17 PM
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Many Thanks and Big {{{{{{{{Hugs}}}}}}}} to all of you for the support and the smiles and hugs. i felt every single hug. You all ROCK!!!!!
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