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Jul 28, 2009 at 06:06 AM
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last night i decided it was time for me to contact my eldest daughter, she moved to her new address on the 17th july, left her a just over a week to settle but as i phoned she hung up on me, so i phoned her dad who told me to ring her aunt who informed me my daughter doesnt want nothing to do with me, so today i recieve a call from her social worker, telling me that she never got my last request for her to call me, she informed me that daughter didnt want me to know anything and that she didnt want to speak to me, not sure were this has come from or why, makes me feel like i have done something wrong but i havent, i suported her all her life with all her issues and all the aligations she made against members of the family
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Jul 28, 2009 at 07:18 AM
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((Kathy)) Im so sorry that happening
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Jul 28, 2009 at 11:39 AM
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So sorry to here about the complications with your daughter. Some children just blame all their difficulties on their parents even when the blame are unfounded. My heart goes out to you, Katheryn.
It is a good thing I have daughter in laws, otherwise I would never know what my boys were up to. (((((((((( Katheryn ))))))))))  kebs
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Jul 28, 2009 at 12:48 PM
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Jul 28, 2009 at 12:59 PM
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Jul 28, 2009 at 01:06 PM
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Jul 28, 2009 at 01:19 PM
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Kathryn, I'm very sorry to hear this. I can only imagine how distressing this must be for you.
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Jul 28, 2009 at 04:54 PM
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thank you for al the replys, felt useless this morningwhen the social worker phoned, some of what she was telling me was what i have been shouting for help with for years, how come ppl step into help after everything gone wrong
i told daughters aunt maybe when we were homeless and moved into the flat that if she and i had more contact with her social worker maybe it wouldnt of got this bad, being left out in the open to survive on our own was hard work, we all were still dealing with a lot of issues and daughters issues as well never got better, my youngest daughter is tending to hate what has happened since eldest daughter did/said what she said, they pulled her away from us the second time the first time she did it they cotton walled her why did they not seek why she did it then so it didnt happen again and destroy a family __________________ No kind action ever stops with itself. One kind action leads to another. Good example is followed. A single act of kindness throws out roots in all directions, and the roots spring up and make new trees. The greatest work that kindness does to others is that it makes them kind themselves.
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Jul 28, 2009 at 07:19 PM
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 So sorry to hear you are having so many problems my friend. Take care of yourself. kebs
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Jul 28, 2009 at 07:31 PM
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((((((((((((Kathryn)))))))))))))
I'm so sorry to hear about this. I hope that you're daughter soon realises how lucky she is to have such a caring and supportive mother like you. Just give her some time... old wounds sometimes take longer to heal.
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