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Aug 20, 2009, 01:01 PM
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either way my house is gone.
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Aug 20, 2009, 06:20 PM
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Sorry to hear about your home 50....
 I just went through the same thing. I was lucky enough to get a short sale out of it (if you can even call that luck)...but that doesn't really help that much. I don't know if this will help either, but I now have a smaller home...it's an apartment, but there is not as much to keep up with and it is in a nicer area of town. Not trying to minimize loosing a home, just trying to find some form of positive from all of this. I wish you well. Hang in there...this isn't your always!! 
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Aug 20, 2009, 11:27 PM
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I'm so sorry to hear this Eric. (((Guy and family)))
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Aug 21, 2009, 04:34 AM
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It is extremely stressful and heartbreaking to have this happen. It really hurts and it is an adjustment. I hope you can be very kind and caring to yourself at this time.
I still miss my house very much. But I can appreciate my apartment too. It is cozy and easier to keep up with.  When something breaks I pick up the phone and report it to maintenance and my bank account is untouched Every week the grass is mowed.. by someone else I can still plant around the patio I can have a pet (actually I can have 3 but 1 is enough) I can try living here... and there... anywhere Any move is an adjustment. Any adjustment is a process of the unfamiliar becoming familiar. All things familiar...began as something unfamiliar. Time does help, so give yourself lots of time to get through this. 
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Aug 22, 2009, 08:57 AM
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This would be so difficult for anyone.
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Aug 22, 2009, 01:29 PM
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I'm really sorry. That's awful news.
--splitimage
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