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Old Aug 22, 2009, 11:45 PM
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Well, yesterday, as of 11 PM GMT, Pup's family had a meltdown.

Her sister took control of their drunken mother and together they contacted Social Services, citing Pup as "out of control, lazy, can't be coped with" and there is a visitation expected between 10:30 and 11:30 GMT.

There were quite a few arguments, and hurtful words exchanged during these arguments, and the result has been a virtual toppling of Pup's life.

Pup's Grandfather phoned some hours ago, and assured her he would not allow Social Services to take her away. She will call him later on.

If Sunday goes well, and she is not removed from her home, she will be requesting to stay with her grandfather, for a week or so, to take a break from her immediate family.

For the time being, her only access to communication is through her mobile, using Mobile MSN and Mobile Skype, not web browsing is available to her at the moment.

Pup is dealing with tremendous stress and anxiety resulting from the aforementioned confrontations. Please keep good thoughts of her in your hearts and minds and for those of you with religion, I respectfully request you to please keep her in your prayers.

All hugs and shout outs welcome, please show her your support.

Thank you.

Pup sends her and
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Old Aug 23, 2009, 02:17 AM
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Old Aug 23, 2009, 06:01 AM
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My thoughts are with Pup and her family during this trying time.
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Old Aug 23, 2009, 06:51 AM
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Old Aug 23, 2009, 07:36 AM
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MooseyMoo,

Thank you for letting us know of our friend Pup. We do hope and pray the best for her. May she be peaceful admidst the storm and the healing come to her.

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Old Aug 23, 2009, 08:15 AM
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I will be thinking of you Pup and hoping for better days to come.
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Old Aug 23, 2009, 08:36 AM
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((((((PUP)))))),

Sometimes we have to go through a storm before we can find the calm on the other side. There are somethings that need to be corrected & it was obvious that the way things were would never get fixed without some major changes.

When love & caring is missing from our life, medical & psychological issues are sure to follow......most of the time, they are a sign of what is really missing in our lives. Amazing how our emotional life can create havock with the chemical balance which creates a mess & confusion between the mental & physical.

Praying that wonderful good things will come from this shakeup in your family & you will be able to find yourself in a caring loving environment where you will thrive & where you deserve to be & have deserved to be there all your life.

Peace & calm to you in this rough sea,
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Old Aug 23, 2009, 08:59 AM
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they contacted Social Services, citing Pup as "out of control, lazy, can't be coped with"
Grrrrr.
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Old Aug 23, 2009, 11:03 AM
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Old Aug 23, 2009, 11:20 AM
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Dear Pup,

Abundant Hugs & Prayers for You.

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Old Aug 23, 2009, 11:39 AM
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Old Aug 23, 2009, 12:12 PM
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Old Aug 23, 2009, 01:38 PM
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in my thoughts and prayers for some peace and strength through this trying time for you

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Old Aug 23, 2009, 01:42 PM
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Old Aug 23, 2009, 02:26 PM
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Old Aug 23, 2009, 03:32 PM
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Hi everyone.
Thanks for this.

At the moment, me and my mother seem to be getting along, we talked for a long while.
My "sister" = no.

I have a lot of health problems right now and stress is the last thing I need, but seems I can't really avoid it.
Last night I felt so overwhelmed and I really didn't need that at all.
Thankfully, the police man who came round didn't do anything but talk about what happened and with my sister making sarcastic, rude remarks, he deemed everything was okay / settling down.

The internet is back, but it is not connecting to my laptops, so bit confused and frustrated on why. Apparently it's a outdated LSP?...

Well, I'm going to try and get back to sleep, I'm exhausted and sleepy still. Will try sorting this out later on.

Going to ask my grandad about staying with him soon too, he's probably the only family member who I feel safe and comforted with here.

Bye for now.
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Old Aug 24, 2009, 09:24 AM
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Old Aug 24, 2009, 11:18 AM
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So sorry to learn this news Lil Sis, I am away at the moment on holiday so I am not at my computer at all, so I am missing speaking to you. I will be back next tuesday.

Take good care of yourself and know that you are loved here
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Old Aug 24, 2009, 11:46 AM
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Bro, update has been posted...

It's always good to read the whole thread...(lol)

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Old Aug 24, 2009, 12:55 PM
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Old Aug 24, 2009, 03:18 PM
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(((((((Pup)))))))

I knew you'd be back, one way or another. You strike me as pretty resourceful when push comes to shove.
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