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May 09, 2005, 02:18 PM
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I guess the title pretty much says it all. I've reconciled myself to the notion that no matter what I post, there are going to be negative comments made by some of the parties replying, and that's an anxiety I can do without.
So, just in call y'all were wondering, that's why I don't post anymore; can't take the "you should have" lectures and negative vibes anymore. Dolfin
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May 09, 2005, 02:32 PM
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i'm also sorry that you feel that way.....
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May 09, 2005, 03:30 PM
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Make no mistake, I am not leaving....just not initiating any more threads so as not to set myself up for any more hurt and heartache. I need to look out for what's best for me, and posting my feelings only to have them demeaned and made to feel belittled is something I can avoid.
Dolfin
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May 09, 2005, 03:31 PM
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I'm glad that you're not leaving Jenn, and this sounds like good self care. You take care of you. You're great and you don't deserve to feel the way you describe. I hope you are well. Much love and lots of hugs.
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May 09, 2005, 03:32 PM
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Dolfin pm me if ya need I have seen NO posts by you that warrent this treatment
Love ya Angie
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May 09, 2005, 03:32 PM
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Maybe you could put the negative posters on ignore?
Jan
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May 09, 2005, 03:45 PM
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I hope I NEVER did anything to cause you to feel this way... I too have felt this way on several times and I have talked to others about it on PMs....but you do what is BEST for you and take care....
{{{{{{{{{{Dolfin}}}}}}}}}}} I totally understand where your coming from....
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May 09, 2005, 06:42 PM
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(((((((((((((((((((JENN))))))))))))))))))))
Pm me if needed. Take care. |
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#12
May 09, 2005, 07:41 PM
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Self care is most important, and I hope that soon you will feel safe enough to post again. As others know, when I am most reactive to their replies to me is when I need to step back and reevauate what is going on with ME. Majority rules used to work pretty accurately here... not sure anymore. Feeling safe is very important to this site.. and to each member... it truly is the safest place around.
Feel better.
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May 10, 2005, 12:53 AM
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Hope4 and Wisewoman,
Neither of you have ever offended me, so please, put your minds to rest. Dolfin
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May 14, 2005, 10:37 AM
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i do not know you Dolpin but this is one of the main reason I left this fourm in the first place many months ago, but now I am back because I know I am safe here..
I Used to be a MOD but I stepped down due to stress at school and at home. be sure others will always say things that they dont mean, or unknownly hurt you, and we are all in bad places at some time or another, .. Just recall the reason you came here to Psych Central, and keep that in your front mind at all times. YOu wanted a place to chat with others about something and you found it. ingore the ones you make you feel "Panic" that is what I do know. I just do not reply to them or put them on my ingore list.. ( very good function on the board now doc) I understand Panic very well turst me...... I do nto want to see you stop posting if you really have issues that you need to talk about, that would only hurt you and cause you more panic or deperssion that you do not need in your life. but I also understand your saftey has to come first.. Talk to a MOD about the peson who is causing you this greif see if he/she can help you resolve the issue.. that is what doc put them on the fourms for ok. lots of dragon love and hugs to you.. ok,. The lady has spoken
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May 15, 2005, 01:50 PM
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LadyD,
I have brought the negativity I've felt to the Mods/Admins attention, and still, the harassment goes on. In fact the person that sets me off continues to post to this very thread. What's the point anymore? Dolfin
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