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Old Nov 18, 2009, 08:44 PM
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Just wanted to let you all know that I have been working on some things to keep me safe. I have found through my friend a site that has questions that you can fill out the answers to and you then copy these and seal them in an envelope and give them to your t, friends you trust, the police, your doctor, and who ever you feel you would want to know if something were to ever happen and you would want someone to know what is going on. You also keep a copy for your records so you have one on file.

I have done this and sent them out to where they needed to go. I am hoping this will give me some peace of mind and some safety. For me, I am living in a situation where I needed to do this. Even if it is only for myself, it has given me a way to let someone know what is going on and who. Fighting to take back even a portion of myself and make it at least a little safer.

If anyone is interested in doing this, you can pm me and I will send you the link. I just wanted to share that I have done this for myself. I am scared and needed to try to give myself some sort of a place to rest. Even if it is only for awhile. I am trying.

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Old Nov 18, 2009, 09:06 PM
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Always wishing the best for you and your safety.
I'm happy it gave you some peace of mind.Take Care
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Old Nov 18, 2009, 10:35 PM
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(((((((((((((((((((((( DPS ))))))))))))))))))))))))))

I'm so proud of you for taking this step to find safety. It is not an easy thing to do. I'm sure it's hard to answer certain questions on something like that, but it's so important to have it out there.

You are doing a wonderful thing by offering to share it with others as well. Thank you for being such a wonderful and supportive member of PC. You have no idea how loved and appreciated you are!

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Old Nov 19, 2009, 02:59 AM
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It is wonderful that you have taken steps towards your own safety and well being. Well done!
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Old Nov 19, 2009, 02:14 PM
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((((((((((((((((Darkpurplesecrets))))))))))))))))))))))))) You are so strong and sensible to have done this, though I'm so sorry it is necessary to have to think like this ... sending you peace and light, Kerry xx
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Old Nov 19, 2009, 05:09 PM
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Thank you for supplying this info......I am glad that you have found something to help you feel safe, or safer.......

I have often, over the years, taken measures of safety.......to protect myself and my son.......the relief is priceless, even if we cannot predict the future...

Take good care babe.......you are #1

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Old Nov 19, 2009, 09:44 PM
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Thank you all for the supporting words and encouragement. I am really afraid. And I know that it was the right thing. I just hope I helped myself and did not just give permission to hurt me. I am not sorry for what I have done, I just hope it was the right thing for our safety, and everyone else's. I am very scared but trying to do the right thing. Thank you again for all your love and support. I love you all too.

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