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Old Jun 07, 2005, 11:45 AM
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I just wanted to say that I have been an "arse" in many many ways here. A friend or two has helped direct my attention to this fact, which I already did know in my heart.

I have said nasty unkind things and devalued certain others for their issues and faults, and their viewpoints while at the same time hoping others would not do the same to me and claiming to appreciate diversity.

I have stonewalled others when I didn't agree with their take on things, and that was not fair.

I've ignored posts that at the time I really felt I should have responded to with warmth and humility.

I have held hard feelings even for people who were supposed to be my friends, because we stood on different sides of the fence at times.

To anyone I have hurt or excluded, I apologize very much. Specifically I know that list includes Dayzee, Greg, Jo, AG (I know she's gone now), Tryin (Beth), and Tomi.

If there are others, I apologize to you as well, and also apologize for leaving you off the list. It wasn't intentional.

I am very sorry.
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Old Jun 07, 2005, 11:49 AM
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((((((((((((((((((angela))))))))))))))))))))))) what a brave post. you're as special as i knew you were.

much love,

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Old Jun 07, 2005, 11:53 AM
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(((((((((((((((SC))))))))))))))))

You have incredible courage and strength to appologize for your actions. To recognize when you have wronged or hurt someone is very difficult. That to me shows your wonderful charecter. Take care. Much love to ya!!
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Old Jun 07, 2005, 12:02 PM
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I hadn't noticed, but cool of you to say so if others did. However, a little bite in your posts is probably good for us -- don't tone back TOO much. Be honest and be yourself. Hugs,
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Old Jun 07, 2005, 12:05 PM
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Angela you are not an arse, you we're basically protecting yourself from flashbacks, possible verbal retaliation (which happens here too often) your tops on my totem pole honey
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Old Jun 07, 2005, 02:40 PM
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Golly, this must be "make Jo cry" day at Psych Central. This is the second post today to bring tears (good ones) to my eyes. I've been an arse...

Angela, we are all just imperfect humans in this life...so you are not an "arse" or any other name. You showed a lot of character in facing these issues, and even more in opening yourself up and publicly apologizing. For what it's worth, I think the issue of being able to see the value in someone as a person even when you are on opposite sides on something is very difficult, and I would imagine almost all of us have been guilty of the things you mention at one time or another in our lives. I know I have been.

Thank you for your apology, and I am sorry for anything I may have done to hurt you. You have taken a big step towards healing today, and for that you deserve a lot of credit.

{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{Angela}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}

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Old Jun 07, 2005, 02:50 PM
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Angela, i wouldn't use your name and "arse" in the same sentence. you're a sweet, courageous, smart and pretty young woman, who contributes mightily to PC...you're never be in disfavor here......love ya, pat
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Old Jun 07, 2005, 03:20 PM
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I appreciate everyone's support in this a lot. It feels really good. I've been an arse...

Especially you, Jo. I didn't know if my apology would be recieved, and I am very touched to see that is has been. Thank you so much (((((((((((((Jo)))))))))))))

I've been an arse...
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Old Jun 07, 2005, 03:33 PM
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You always show your true character Angela...even if it takes you a bit. Congrats to you for being brave and recognizing mistakes/faults.

If all of us could be that great.

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Old Jun 07, 2005, 05:20 PM
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Angela, you've been nothing but extremely supportive of me. My hat's off to you. I've been an arse...
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Old Jun 07, 2005, 08:06 PM
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Angela~

I agree so much with some of the others here. That it takes alot of courage to apologize in public like you have. We are just humans and WE ALL MAKE MISTAKES. I know I do alot of that. I accept your apology in friendship Angela. I've been an arse...And I hope you and others I may have offended too,will accept my apology for any ill actions I have instilled on any of you here. Take care and thanks again.

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Old Jun 07, 2005, 08:20 PM
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Old Jun 07, 2005, 08:47 PM
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(((((( Angela ))))))

You are very sweet and very brave but we already knew that. I've been an arse...

Take care.
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