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Member Since Apr 2005
Location: Australia
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Jun 16, 2005 at 09:03 PM
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Yes, when? Sure, I don't feel like I should be hitting anyone, but I don't see why they are given special protection.
I don't think anyone sees women as helpless these days, and they are not morally superior at all. Hell I was bullied by one for a year and it drove me to cutting and self-imposed starvatoin I think my rage could've been better expressed during that time, say by clocking her over the head. What do you think? |
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Member Since Feb 2005
Location: USA
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Jun 16, 2005 at 09:09 PM
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I don't think it's ok to hit anyone period ..man or woman
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Jun 16, 2005 at 09:11 PM
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Ditto.
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Member Since Apr 2005
Location: Virgnia
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Jun 16, 2005 at 09:13 PM
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It is never ok to hit another person - in my opinion. Resorting to physical assault will not solve any problem, but perhaps cause more physical problems. I am sorry you were hurt by someone, but I certainly admire that you did not resort to physical abuse. I am also sorry you cut, and starved yourself, and hope that you have received help for those issues, and are no longer engaging in harmful activities. Good luck to u!
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Jun 16, 2005 at 09:46 PM
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HUH? Unless you're in a boxing ring and signed releases... NEVER.
I agree that no one should hit another person. Women tend to be "more" protected (assumed from men) because men have strength that can do so much damage to a woman. I'm sorry you were hurt, and hope you can find the truthful answer to your questioning. It takes a real man to not strike out physically nor emotionally at anyone imo. __________________ |
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Jun 16, 2005 at 09:49 PM
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DITTO!!
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Location: Merrimack College
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Jun 16, 2005 at 10:54 PM
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I do not believe that it is ever appropriate to cause pyshical harm to any one gender aside.
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Jun 16, 2005 at 11:14 PM
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i am so blown away by your question that i'm having a hard time with it. it's never okay to hit anyone and a man is so much stronger than a woman that it's a given who's going to get badly hurt. i think you need help with this and i hope you get to a place where you aren't dealing with this issue anymore. pat
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Location: The Great Lakes State
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Jun 16, 2005 at 11:14 PM
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It's NEVER okay, regardless of gender. Being a woman that has been in physically abusive relationships in the past, I am guilty of ignoring my own words, out of self defense. I'm not saying I was right in doing so, but sometimes you have to fight back, or risk losing a lot more than bruised morals.
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Grand Magnate
Member Since Dec 2004
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Jun 17, 2005 at 12:12 AM
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There is really nothing I can add to this post that has not already been said. Maybe if someone makes you that angry you should, #1- Get out of that relationship as it is obviously not healthy and #2 - Seek intense therapy.
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Poohbah
Member Since Dec 2004
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Jun 17, 2005 at 01:30 AM
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in the clearing stands a boxer and a fighter by HER trade and she carries the reminders of every glove thats laid her down or cut her till she cried out in her anger and her shame. . .well we know the rest
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Poohbah
Member Since May 2005
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Jun 17, 2005 at 01:50 AM
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I don't think it is ok to hit any gender. At school I dunno why but mostly boys start stupid fights over nothing with another boy. They start rolling down the grass hill. None get some badly hurt but I don't see the point in it in the first place. As girls would start to move a bit away and start laughing or watching them fight. I have hardly seen a girl get hit in this case by a different gender usally its their own genders that hit eachother at school. Then it is with a female and male hitting eachother maybe in a compilcated abusive relationship. But it's a bit like Rugby it states thar girls can't plays rugby with boys not even at school these days because of violence on the fleid playing such an attack game. NO ONE DESERVES TO BE HIT ON PURPOSE!
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Member Since Feb 2005
Location: Manila, Philippines
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Jun 17, 2005 at 04:04 AM
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Most women (not just girls) are fast getting so immature nowadays. Don't hit her for that will make you immature as well.
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Jun 17, 2005 at 04:16 AM
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Excuse me??? Your statement is a direct insult to all women! That's a rather poor excuse for not hitting one! Do you not like women??
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Member Since Feb 2005
Location: Manila, Philippines
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Jun 17, 2005 at 04:22 AM
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I am not saying that I don't like women. I'm just saying that I'm finding most of them getting immature nowadays, even illogical sometimes.
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Member Since Jul 2004
Location: Minnesota
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Jun 17, 2005 at 04:22 AM
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Its probably never a good idea to hit anyone. For women its doubly so. Not only does the law frown on it more so but its also looked at negatively by almost everyone. Thats the kind of thing that will follow ya around for a long time. Seriously, if a woman hit me with a bat, instead of striking back id call the cops. If ya do lash out expect to spend time in jail.
Sept, if you ask him if he doesnt like women and then say you think the opposite is true, does that mean you dont like men?  My personal feeling is neither sex has the stronghold on being immature as ive met many of both sexes who are so.
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Jun 17, 2005 at 04:24 AM
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And you know "most" women, right?
 It seems to have gone completely over your head that your comment was an INSULT! __________________ Psalm 119:105 Thy word is a lamp unto my feet, and a light unto my path. |
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Jun 17, 2005 at 04:26 AM
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Hey... was the word you were looking for the other day happen to be "sexist"?
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Jun 17, 2005 at 05:04 AM
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Off-topic Post (sorry for hi-jacking): Sorry, I didn't mean to say that. I have my own problem regarding a sexual issue right now and I'm pretty confused. I'm really sorry, I take back my unthought words.
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Poohbah
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Jun 17, 2005 at 06:35 AM
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