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Apr 13, 2010, 06:29 AM
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my best friends son commited suiside yesterday morning.she is like a sister to me and i would give anyting for het to not have to go through what she is going through night now.he was only 19 and noone had any idea he was haveing any problems.they all said he was in a great place and dont understand.I dont get it just a few months ago he almost died of a drug overdose and they believed him when he said he didnt want to kill himself.he almost died then it was truely luck he didnt and this time he suceeded.
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Apr 13, 2010, 12:41 PM
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My condolences to the family. |
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Apr 14, 2010, 09:56 AM
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People oftentimes try to hide how bad they feel inside because they feel like they cannot talk about it with others. That others wouldn't understand how they feel inside. To talk of suicide in our culture is sort of taboo and people look upon you as though you were crazy if you say anything. Or, they freak out when a person mentions they have suicidal feelings.
I'm sorry for your friend's loss though. 
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Apr 14, 2010, 10:04 AM
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I'm very sorry
 for the death of your BF's son. This is going to be a very difficult time for her. I lost my brother 2 yrs ago to suicide also. I agree with SophiaG - I think parents/schools should speak about it openly because most people are ashamed to admit these feelings. Men are also more secretive regarding suicide.
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Apr 14, 2010, 10:49 AM
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I want to add my condolences also. Suicide is a very serious thing and should never be taken for granted.
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Apr 15, 2010, 02:58 AM
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That is very tragic. My condolences to you and your best friend's family.
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Apr 15, 2010, 09:08 PM
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(((granite1))) Very sorry to hear of this young mans death! I pray for healing of your friends broken heart, and for yours as well.
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