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Old Mar 27, 2010, 03:31 AM
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i had a call this morning from best friends daughter, nothing unusual as they are always phoning but i was only with them all yesterday, she phoned to break some nasty bad news, i would never expect this in a million years

her mum had woke up with what she thought was indigestion but she died, my bestest friend in the whole world died, it cant be why,

i was with her yesterday she was fine grrr
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Old Mar 27, 2010, 03:33 AM
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I am so sorry. That is so sad.
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Old Mar 27, 2010, 03:40 AM
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it would of been her birthday on 7th april she would of been 47
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Old Mar 27, 2010, 03:44 AM
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How very sad. I am so sorry for your loss (((katheryn)))
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Old Mar 27, 2010, 06:32 AM
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((((((katheryn)))))))). I am so sad for the loss of your friend. The passing over of others is one of the strangest things we face in the world. It's one of the saddest and hardest. This is true is when we believe, as I do, that there is no death of the person's essence. Time will heal you and your friend's family, believe it or not. billieJ
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Old Mar 27, 2010, 09:49 AM
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Kathy & Dec and Family, and Friends Family,

So sorry to hear of your best friends passing. I can't even imagine losing my best friend. Please know that you have our love and support whenever you need it. And know that she is there always in your heart.

Love you guys,
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Old Mar 27, 2010, 09:58 AM
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I'm very sorry for your loss. How tragic to die so very young.
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Old Mar 27, 2010, 10:10 AM
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Old Mar 27, 2010, 10:12 AM
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My brother's wife died young too, of a heart attack that was not immediately recognized for what it was. It pays for women, especially if there is a history of heart trouble in the family, to be aware of this kind of possibility and pay attention to their body signals.

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((((Katheryn)))) - so sorry for the loss of your best friend. It's so difficult when it's sudden and the loved one's so young. I wonder if it was a heart attack - often heart burn can really be a heart attack. My thoughts and prayers are with you and her family
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Old Mar 27, 2010, 02:46 PM
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OMG! That is so very sad! Im so sorry, thoughts and prayers and hugs to your friends family and to you during this terrible time. keeping you in my prayers.!!
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Old Mar 27, 2010, 04:05 PM
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thank you everyone knowing that ppl care does help a little bit,also knowing that she never suffered is good and now she is up there with her brother mum and dad and her grandson who was taken way to soon, she can spend time on the swings in heaven with baby luke, watching over us all
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Old Mar 27, 2010, 04:06 PM
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(((((((((((((((((Katheryn)))))))))))))))))))) I'm so very sorry for your loss.
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Old Mar 27, 2010, 06:14 PM
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That is the most beautiful visual of your dear friend Kathyrn. May the spirit of your love stay with you always. Wishing you well.
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Old Mar 27, 2010, 07:14 PM
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Old Mar 28, 2010, 10:23 AM
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Old Mar 31, 2010, 06:32 AM
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(((((Katheryn))))) a friend like that can be like a sister
the sad part is that she didn't get to live to the full
life span and the sharing that comes with it too.
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Old Mar 31, 2010, 06:47 AM
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the family are still waiting to hear from the coroner they are now expecting tomorrow before they hear, we are then into a bank holiday good friday and easter monday so wont know much till the weekend, the family seem to be holding up clearing up so that the house can be managed by her hubby on his own, she did everything for him but he seems to be ok at mo well there is pleanty of us who will help

ty for all the responses
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Old Mar 31, 2010, 08:17 AM
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Sending you many wishes to keep your strength up.
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Old Mar 31, 2010, 10:04 AM
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Old Mar 31, 2010, 02:57 PM
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((((((((((((((((( Katheryn ))))))))))))))))))))))))

What a horrible shock to everyone I'm sure. I'm so very sorry for your loss.

Being the person I am, I cannot help but see the blessing you received by having the whole day with her before she passed. May you find some comfort in that.


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Old Mar 31, 2010, 04:22 PM
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My sincere condolences, Katheryn. I am sorry for your loss.
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Old Apr 01, 2010, 05:11 AM
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the family heard yesterday it was heart disease,they can register her death next Tues as its a bank holiday weekend here being good Friday and bank holiday on Mon, they then have an appointment with the undertaker
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Old Apr 01, 2010, 09:14 AM
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At least you know now what it was and can try to find some closure. Sending you calming thoughts.
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