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Old Jul 21, 2010, 09:18 AM
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I spent the better part of the first 40-years of my life looking for a guru, that person who would just blow me away with her or his prescience, kindness, compassion, vision and guidance. The one who would give me the answers. Who would tell me what to do to get to that place where I finally felt like I had “made it.”

So many others I knew had found one and their lives seemed so much better, more directed and purposeful for it, but that never happened to me. I would attend lectures, teachings, seminars, trainings and retreats and, inevitably, end up leaving early because some combination of information, integrity, pace or delivery did not resonate. Why couldn’t I find that person?

http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/...-your-own-guru
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Old Jul 21, 2010, 10:54 AM
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I love "Napkin Notes on the Art of Living" for that purpose; that book was my 'guru':

http://www.amazon.com/Napkin-Notes-M...9727625&sr=1-1
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Old Jul 21, 2010, 07:38 PM
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I spent the better part of the first 40-years of my life looking for a guru, that person who would just blow me away with her or his prescience, kindness, compassion, vision and guidance. The one who would give me the answers. Who would tell me what to do to get to that place where I finally felt like I had “made it.”
Why couldn’t I find that person?
What if YOU are the Guru Pachy? You offer information to others simply and easily..you post all of these wonderful links that offer information and insight....

Rhiannon
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Old Jul 22, 2010, 04:47 AM
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What if YOU are the Guru Pachy? You offer information to others simply and easily..you post all of these wonderful links that offer information and insight....

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Me Guru?

You should get a peek into me sometimes. Anyway, the point of the story is that one can be only one's own guru...
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Old Jul 22, 2010, 07:00 AM
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Me Guru?

You should get a peek into me sometimes. Anyway, the point of the story is that one can be only one's own guru...
But others can show you the way to finding that out, no?? sometimes one just can't see the forest for the trees so goes to someone thats made their own way through the forest and knows some of the ways to get through? But ulitmately yes its ones own experience of their journey that is important, but guides are useful.
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Old Jul 22, 2010, 07:04 AM
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But others can show you the way to finding that out, no??
Yes. If you can find one or more, that's good too.
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Old Jul 22, 2010, 09:44 AM
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I found mine in the mirror, Tin Man.

"Oz didn't give nothin' to the Tin Man, that he didn't already have." -America
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Old Jul 22, 2010, 09:50 AM
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I am always looking for that one person that can offer me motivation, inspiration, happiness, guidance..
While only we know ourselves good enough, some outside influence at times is great too!
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