Home Menu

Menu


Reply
Thread Tools Display Modes
  #1  
Old Mar 24, 2011, 12:58 PM
Martina's Avatar
Martina Martina is offline
Veteran Member
 
Member Since: Dec 2008
Location: Oregon
Posts: 413
I know I'll get in trouble for posting this here but I honestly have no clue what forum it belongs in. Sorry.

I've been browsing the net for jobs if we do decide to move. And I'm at a crossroads in my career.

The jobs I'm qualified for are either:

Management-level accounting, where I would be someone's boss
or
CPA firm

Both would pay really well and I would feel like I am actually using that piece of paper hanging on my wall (CPA license....which means nothing at my current job)

But I'm too scared to actually move up.

I don't think I'm capable of managing someone. I'm not assertive enough. I'm not smart enough.

But at a CPA firm, there's tax season. My major mental break that resulted in multiple hospitalizations in 2008 started right after my very first tax season. I can't handle being away from my family so much for 4 months straight.

And then I go wondering - do I even want to be an accountant? I picked accounting because I'm good with numbers, good at math....but do I actually LIKE this? And if not, what the heck do I do?

We're way too broke and in debt to consider starting over at minimum wage in a new career field.
__________________
Martina
30 year old wife & mom to a 5 year old girl
Bipolar Disorder and Borderline Personality Disorder

advertisement
  #2  
Old Mar 24, 2011, 05:31 PM
Martina's Avatar
Martina Martina is offline
Veteran Member
 
Member Since: Dec 2008
Location: Oregon
Posts: 413
There's one thing I've thought of, but after looking at a few job postings it appears I would need another degree.

Statistics.

I took a couple statistics courses in high school and college, but I don't have much experience. And most jobs I was finding were asking for a Master's or PhD in statistics. Yikes.
__________________
Martina
30 year old wife & mom to a 5 year old girl
Bipolar Disorder and Borderline Personality Disorder
  #3  
Old Mar 24, 2011, 05:51 PM
Miss Laura's Avatar
Miss Laura Miss Laura is offline
Elder
 
Member Since: Sep 2008
Location: Scotland, UK
Posts: 5,275
Hey Martina,

I don't have any answers for you as I am struggle too.... sorry

All I have known is working in care working with both Adults and Children with disabilities. Now after 10 years I am stuck. I did work part-time in Supermarkets but do I want to go back to that?????

What can I do, I honestly do not know!!

Just so you know your not alone
  #4  
Old Mar 24, 2011, 05:55 PM
splitimage's Avatar
splitimage splitimage is offline
Moderator
Community Support Team
 
Member Since: Mar 2006
Location: Ontario, Canada
Posts: 11,883
Martina,

I know the feeling - I'm job hunting too. Public accounting isn't even an option I'll consider I hate tax too much, and all my experience is in corporate accounting. Have you thought about looking for senior level financial analyst roles. Large companies have them, and up here the pay for a senior financial analyst is typically 70-80K. The jobs are generally interesting in that you're usually interacting in a support role to a business unit, but you don't have the hassle of actually managing people. The only downside is firms frequently want industry specific experience.

Just a thought.

--splitimage
__________________


"I danced in the morning when the world was begun. I danced in the moon and the stars and the sun". From my favourite hymn.

"If you see the wonder in a fairy tale, you can take the future even if you fail." Abba

What do I want to be when I grow up?
  #5  
Old Mar 24, 2011, 11:12 PM
Martina's Avatar
Martina Martina is offline
Veteran Member
 
Member Since: Dec 2008
Location: Oregon
Posts: 413
I actually browsed through a few analyst positions but most of them were asking for qualifications that I don't have, like an MBA. I started an MBA but didn't finish because I got pregnant and couldn't do school-work-and mom at the same time.

I guess I can apply anyways and see what happens.
__________________
Martina
30 year old wife & mom to a 5 year old girl
Bipolar Disorder and Borderline Personality Disorder
  #6  
Old Mar 25, 2011, 11:14 AM
Perna's Avatar
Perna Perna is offline
Pandita-in-training
 
Member Since: Sep 2006
Location: Maryland
Posts: 27,289
I did the CPA think thing back 15 years ago; I love accounting but then thought it through and realized I loved doing accounting problems, not accounting

Actually, you are probably good with word problems, algebra?, can write papers well (state and support a thesis)? Maybe you should look into web design a little, programming, that can be conceptually similar to word problems (I enjoy that too, have several websites). I would think larger than accounting and try anything that requires "manipulating" words (do you like case studies? I love reading them) to get a particular result, "adding" them up in essence
__________________
"Never give a sword to a man who can't dance." ~Confucius
  #7  
Old Mar 25, 2011, 11:23 AM
Martina's Avatar
Martina Martina is offline
Veteran Member
 
Member Since: Dec 2008
Location: Oregon
Posts: 413
Great ideas, thanks. Only problem is I can't go back to school. I already have $25,000 in student loan debt, and I'm not about to add more.
__________________
Martina
30 year old wife & mom to a 5 year old girl
Bipolar Disorder and Borderline Personality Disorder
  #8  
Old Mar 25, 2011, 11:30 AM
SophiaG's Avatar
SophiaG SophiaG is offline
Poohbah
 
Member Since: May 2008
Location: North East USA
Posts: 1,427
So I guess choose the position you know won't cause you to have a mental-break down. After all, if you don't have your mental health, what do you have?
__________________
“In depression . . . faith in deliverance, in ultimate restoration, is absent. The pain is unrelenting, and what makes the condition intolerable is the...feeling felt as truth...that no remedy will come -- not in a day, an hour, a month, or a minute. . . . It is hopelessness even more than pain that crushes the soul.”-William Styron
  #9  
Old Mar 25, 2011, 12:43 PM
Perna's Avatar
Perna Perna is offline
Pandita-in-training
 
Member Since: Sep 2006
Location: Maryland
Posts: 27,289
Quote:
Originally Posted by Martina View Post
Great ideas, thanks. Only problem is I can't go back to school.
But if you write well, you could think of accounting text book writing/editing, other technical publishing (companies on Wall Street and their investor papers/financial summaries, etc.); yes, the company itself, its financial department might write them but the publisher/printer/whoever has to have someone on its staff to proof the copy before they give it back to the company to mail/hand out? You could join the FBI? they like accountants.
__________________
"Never give a sword to a man who can't dance." ~Confucius
  #10  
Old Mar 25, 2011, 12:48 PM
Martina's Avatar
Martina Martina is offline
Veteran Member
 
Member Since: Dec 2008
Location: Oregon
Posts: 413
Actually I'm leaning toward something part-time, but at a better hourly wage than what I'm making now. Not really losing much money overall. I'm thinking $18-$25/hour instead of the $13 bucks an hour I'm making now. Something where I can drop my daughter off at school in the morning, and pick her up in the afternoon, avoiding daycare and not stressing myself out so much with oodles of overtime. Save money on childcare costs, too. And I could take her to things like gymnastics lessons at 3:00 instead of 5:00 so dinner wouldn't be so late.

But most of the part-time jobs I see listed are lower level jobs like entry-level accounting clerks making $10 bucks an hour.

I'll find something.
__________________
Martina
30 year old wife & mom to a 5 year old girl
Bipolar Disorder and Borderline Personality Disorder
  #11  
Old Mar 25, 2011, 01:21 PM
TheByzantine
Guest
 
Posts: n/a
Good luck.
Reply
Views: 744

attentionThis is an old thread. You probably should not post your reply to it, as the original poster is unlikely to see it.




All times are GMT -5. The time now is 12:46 PM.
Powered by vBulletin® — Copyright © 2000 - 2025, Jelsoft Enterprises Ltd.




 

My Support Forums

My Support Forums is the online community that was originally begun as the Psych Central Forums in 2001. It now runs as an independent self-help support group community for mental health, personality, and psychological issues and is overseen by a group of dedicated, caring volunteers from around the world.

 

Helplines and Lifelines

The material on this site is for informational purposes only, and is not a substitute for medical advice, diagnosis or treatment provided by a qualified health care provider.

Always consult your doctor or mental health professional before trying anything you read here.