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Old Apr 11, 2011, 09:03 PM
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My friend committed suicide a month ago, and one of the things she used to do was leave notes around our college campus that said things like "smile" on them. I wanted to sort of honor her memory by doing something similar with post-it notes during exam week. I would use the smile one that she did, and the Operation Beautiful one, where they leave notes that say things like "You're beautiful" on things like bathroom mirrors. I would like to think of other things because I want to make a lot of them to put all over campus, so I don't want them to all say the same thing. Any ideas?
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Old Apr 11, 2011, 09:48 PM
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You are loved. God loves you. Someone loves you. You're doing a good job. Take time to enjoy life. Study hard, play harder. It's a good day. Be a friend. Thank you. Live Love Laugh....

any of those work for you?
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Old Apr 11, 2011, 09:50 PM
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"Smile, gorgeous!"

I am so sorry for your loss (((Catlovers)))
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Old Apr 12, 2011, 02:13 AM
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Old Apr 12, 2011, 09:40 AM
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((((((Catlovers)))))) I am so sorry to hear your loss, I think that is a wonderful idea to honor your friend and to help you deal with the loss too. One thing I heard at a time when I was really in a bad spot, was "it gets better" and ever since then I have found it to be a really powerful message for me, maybe that could be one of your post it notes?
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Old Apr 12, 2011, 08:14 PM
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-Ever single person you see right now has issues of some kind. You are not alone.
-Just say yes, and go buy that chocolate you really want right now.
-Picture the next person you see in their underwear; see- you don't look so bad, do you?
-Do something nice for someone else in the next 10 minutes. What goes around comes around.
-Your mother was NOT always right.
-It is okay to stop doing for a while. Just STOP, and see what happens.
-Sit down, and take a deep breath. And then another. You will be okay.
-Having a bad day? It will end.. you can count on that.
-You are doing the best you can. Forgive yourself.
-Forgive someone else.
-Yes, life sucks sometimes. Oh well..sometimes it doesn't.
-It is okay to look forward to watching stupid tv.
-Go buy something you want that you normally wouldn't buy.
-Tonight, spend more than $5.00 on a bottle of wine.
-No one else but you notices that your pants are tight.
-You WILL get wiser with age.
-This too shall pass,,,

ok.. i'll stop now. I know these are too big for sticky notes.
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Old Apr 13, 2011, 08:08 PM
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Oh ((((Catlovers))) I am so sorry for your loss.... thank you for sharing your pain with us....! Crew
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Old Apr 13, 2011, 08:12 PM
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My condolences as well...what a beautiful way to remember her.

"Forgive yourself"
"There IS someone like you"
"I feel the same way"
"Speak out!"
"You rock"
"Sanity is overrated"
"I'm crazy, too"
"Ask for help"
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