I received a message on Facebook saying "why did you delete me?" and I deleted all the messages because I don't want to talk to him. The reason why I deleted him was because on a question I asked "do you trust me?" and he puts no. So I felt down and there's no point of chatting to him. On one of the messages, he put... something about me deleting him because of his colour, (he is black) and about his nationality. I told myself, that's a bit over the top. I didn't deleted him because of his colour. I don't want to be friends with people who don't trust me. I looked on his profile and he has set his privacy to everyone and he wrote a status about me. It wasn't nice. This means I won't accept any friend requests from random people. This happened to me in the past. He was a random person who added me. So... That's all I think

[IceCreamKid]

My guess is this guy operates under the idea that "people have to earn my trust" as if it is some great giant gemstone of emotional protection. I don't believe in jumping through hoops or making others jump through hoops; I trust people until they give me reason not to.

Which is a roundabout way of saying it was his problem, Happy, not yours. You're a nice person.

Originally Posted by IceCreamKid

My guess is this guy operates under the idea that "people have to earn my trust" as if it is some great giant gemstone of emotional protection. I don't believe in jumping through hoops or making others jump through hoops; I trust people until they give me reason not to.

Which is a roundabout way of saying it was his problem, Happy, not yours. You're a nice person.

Thank you for saying I am a nice person I am feeling better

[Korin]

It sounds to me like this is more his problem that it is yours. Unfortunately I read about this type of thing all the time where Facebook is concerned. Some people feel obligated to accept friends requests. I think you are well within your right to delete anyone you want - it is your account after all.

Originally Posted by Korin

It sounds to me like this is more his problem that it is yours. Unfortunately I read about this type of thing all the time where Facebook is concerned. Some people feel obligated to accept friends requests. I think you are well within your right to delete anyone you want - it is your account after all.

Thanks for your reply

(((((((((((((((((((happycheeks)))))))))))))))))))I ditto Icecreamkid, and raise. You are a great person!!!!!!!!-----------------------------------------pax-theo

Originally Posted by theodora

(((((((((((((((((((happycheeks)))))))))))))))))))I ditto Icecreamkid, and raise. You are a great person!!!!!!!!-----------------------------------------pax-theo

Thank you