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Dec 28, 2005, 10:41 AM
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Just before Christmas I lost a precious friend of mine. She died. She is constantly on my mind but I know one thing is that I have never waited until tomorrow to say how much I care for her and how much I did appreciate what she did for me or fix a conflict between me and her. At least I did this right.
I have been living this way since I was a teenager. I lost someone that I love very much at that age and since then I always live my life like there is no tomorrow. Because maybe tomorrow will never come. What I'm saying here is that I know there is a lot of you hurting becuase maybe of a bad communication, because of our illness, myabe because we don't want to give the benefit of a doubt, maybe for a lot of reasons. Please don't wait for tomorrow to try to fix things or try to communicate between each other to make it better because "Tomorrow might never come." |
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Dec 28, 2005, 11:13 AM
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Dec 28, 2005, 11:14 AM
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I am so very sorry for the loss of your friend.
Your post is so very true and an excellent reminder to us. Thank you for posting this. {{{{{time0}}}}}
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Dec 28, 2005, 11:29 AM
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i am so sorry about the loss of your friend but thank you very much for this post....we all need to remember this......
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Dec 28, 2005, 12:06 PM
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I too am sorry for the loss of your friend, but thank you for reaching out to remind us all of this. {{{{{time}}}}}
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Dec 28, 2005, 12:26 PM
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TimeO, well said. Good reminder. I try to keep it current too. My Mom is 79, her childhood best friend just died and the son read a poem about this concept at her service. My Mom got it and "got it"and started being able to say "I love you" first, to me, since......... high risk, that love *****.......... ))) ) LOL TimeO (((( (
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Dec 28, 2005, 01:06 PM
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((((((((tim0)))))))) so sorry for your loss. Your friend will be with you whenever you think of her.
Thank you for encouraging people to make peace with those they care and love. |
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Dec 28, 2005, 11:26 PM
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Very well put Time0. I am sorry about your friend and send you warm thoughts during this hard time.
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Dec 28, 2005, 11:32 PM
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Hmm you read my mind? (((hugs)))
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Dec 29, 2005, 12:24 AM
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((((((((((((time0))))))))))))))) I am so sorry to hear about your friend. Thank you for reminding us that life is fragile and at some point ends. Hopefully we all will heed your advice and treat our relationships with the respect they deserve.
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Dec 29, 2005, 12:32 PM
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What a beautiful way to look at things. I think i shall try my hardest to do that.
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You might say it's self-indulgent. You might say it's self-destructive. But you see it's more productive than if i were to be happy. |
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Dec 29, 2005, 07:40 PM
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Cool post. I'm sorry about your loss. I have been trying to talk to my Grandma on a regular basis. I have been a bit lax lately due to Christmas. I will probably get back to calling her regularly next week. I just hope I don't give myself a headache like I did on Thanksgiving.
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