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Default Dec 16, 2011 at 06:35 AM
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Mary C. Lamia, Ph.D. talks about the complexity of fear in her blog, Intense Emotions and Strong Feelings. She distinguishes between fear and anxiety.
In contrast to fear, anxiety is a general state of distress that is longer lasting than fear and usually is triggered by something that is not specific, even though it produces physiological arousal, such as nervousness and apprehension (Lang et al., 2000). Yet both fear and anxiety emotions are triggered in response to threat. Some researchers distinguish between fear and anxiety by determining whether or not avoidance behaviors are present (Sylvers et al., 2011), or if the intended outcome has to do with avoidance or escape (Lang, et al., 2000). Thus, the presence of avoidance behaviors would indicate fear, in contrast to anxiety where a person may be very much on the alert but does not avoid the situation. However, this can be confusing since in certain anxiety disorders, particularly in phobias, the focus is specific and avoidance behaviors are present. Perhaps better clarifying the difference is the notion that where anxiety is foreboding and puts you on alert to a future threat, fear immediately leads to an urge to defend yourself with escape from an impending disaster (Ohman, 2010).
What Dr. Lamia's article has done is to get me to think about the boundary between fear and anxiety. For me, there is no precise delineation. Lamia tries to help by stating:
From an evolutionary perspective, the emotion of fear protected humans from predators and other threats to the survival of the species. So it is no wonder that certain dangers evoke that emotion, since fear helps protect you and is therefore adaptive, functional, and necessary. However, there is another important aspect of emotions to consider that, in the case of fear, may be important to decision-making as well as survival. That is, when an emotion is triggered it has an impact on our judgments and choices in situations (Lerner and Keltner, 2001). In a study of risk taking, participants who were fearful consistently made judgments and choices that were relatively pessimistic and amplified their perception of risk in a given situation, in contrast to happy or angry participants who were more likely to disregard risk by making relatively optimistic judgments and choices (Lerner and Keltner, 2001). Similarly, individuals who are trait fearful--those who tend to have personality characteristics that are dominated by the emotion of fear--will avoid taking risks that are generally perceived by others as relatively benign (Sylvers, et al., 2011). Thus, awareness of your emotions and considering how they might influence your decision-making in a given situation is important in your approach to life, your work, and your goals. Certainly, such is the case of fear in all of its complexity.
Whether the paramount emotion is fear or anxiety, moving outside of my comfort zone has been difficult. Change has confounded my life.
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Default Dec 18, 2011 at 02:28 AM
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Wow that is very interesting...and I too struggle with the effects of this....My fears and anxiety have a devastating affect on my life...
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Yuppers! I believe I have mentioned before..."change", just the mention of the word! is for me blasphemous........Fear of change is my "Waterloo" as it were.

Object of the game is to overcome fear; I enable a myriad of aspects of myself to do this: and Dance through the fire of "change", fear, self doubt, anxiety...not easy...

Because, I know, if I do not challenge me, and do it...I will become stagnant and more empty than I often feel now.....I will become numb...my existence meaningless..........deeeep depression sets in for me...complete apathy partners it.

Today, at this great age;I choose to climb every mountain in my life, and claim all the benefits associated with the victory of conquering my fears.........I am a better person for it. And---hey! Life is short...it's later than most think.....I suppose age gives more perspective to this phenomena...jus a guess....LOL I wanna Live before I experience physical death!!! (Bout time!)

"Nothing worthwhile is ever easy"---------hey?
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Default Dec 20, 2011 at 05:15 PM
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Thank you Elan Vital for the post, another thought provoker. I always enjoy reading your posts.

I think anxiety is just a more specific way of looking at fear, instead of two different emotions.

Fearing change is akin to fearing the unknown, and I think it's most likely a form of anxiety. It's pretty maladaptive, but not uncommon. The issue with fearing change in general is that you have such a broad fear that it can be paralyzing. Try to think of what specific changes are most frightening to you, and how you can avoid/overcome these fears. Some of your fears may be completely legitimate concerns, like being afraid of foreclosure if you haven't been able to make a few mortgage payments.

Everything is changing, "You can't step in the same river twice" - Heraclitus
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Default Dec 23, 2011 at 03:35 PM
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i am dreading something, have for several days, don't know what . i feel it inside.
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Default Dec 24, 2011 at 06:22 AM
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Cin1, I know that feeling...sometimes I become overwhelmed by dread and fear.....
My whole body is in Fight or flight mode, I feel sick from it, but the danger is not evident, it's just felt....It can come on, out of the blue and makes me feel so uncomfortable.....

I feel like something really BAD is going to happen, even though I am completely safe...I fight it but some times it can stop me from going anywhere.....
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Default Dec 26, 2011 at 03:05 AM
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^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^((((((((cin1))))))))&((((((((WobblyWombat))))))))))^^^^^^^^^

I have experienced similar feelings...aka: "Fear of the Unknown"?
My worst fears r/t separation anxiety I grew up with...I call it "The Mean Reds" In the book "Breakfast at Tiffanys'" by Capote; Holly is asked what she means when she says she has the "Mean Reds".

She replies: "My dear, "the blues" are when it's raining, or you're getting fat or something..."The Mean Reds" are when you're afraid of something, but you don't know what it is you're afraid of; only cure for me, is to jump a cab and go to Tiffanys'--I mean, nothing bad can happen to you in a place like that; can it?"

Must feel "safe" there......let's go!!!!! smiling....feel free to pm me?

"The Mean Reds"---"Fear of the Unknown" & "Change" is always "unknown"******I know(pun) them well----hugs---theo

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OH, and upon careful thought...hello Feticeira! To me, and to anyone experiencing any sort of paralyzing fear; whether one labels it "legitimate" or not, it is just as "legitimate" as living on the streets with no food to eat.

(Akin to emotional/mental pain vs. physical pain...both are relevant, both serious all "legitimate"! No way to delineate betwixt them all...all need kind care.)

It is paralyzing, overwhelming, and, it is necessary to overcome in the basic skill of "survival"...it is no more difficult than the others. I know this type too, all the same to me!...been there, done it. pax----theo

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