[Karolinajm]

Hi!
How can a friend say that she or he loves you and that she or he NEVER EVER is gonna leave you? When that's exactly always what they are doing? Friends always leave....EVERYBODY leaves you in the end, and you are standing there all alone.

When that's happening...take a big breath and put a smile on yor face. Tell your self that it was for the better and that you can find so much more friends.

If the friend can´t see that you have changed then the friend is not worth it.

Hugs to you all Karolina!

wise words........thanks, p

[ozzie]

Maybe the friend is really busy taking care of their own needs for a time. I hope that's all it is that's going on with your friend. ((((karolina))))

[Karolinajm]

Ozzie....Yes I believe so. I'm just so hurt and I'm feeling worthless. I feel used when I see that he/she has a humble attitude to others but me he/she don't give a simple word to.
All we once had...not it's gone!

[ozzie]

(((((((((karolina)))))))))))) I'm really sorry you're feeling so hurt and worthless. None of us is worthless even when that nasty feeling overcomes us. Hang in there!

i've got a little time now..........we do have to move on when we sense that things have changed between us and another person. it is never fair to us or the other person to pursue something that isn't there.

it is a courtesy to ourselves, and the other person, to be content with what is offered freely and sincerely.

a wise person once told me that having expectations will always get us into trouble. i trip myself up on that one a lot.

move on down your road. p

[Fuzzybear]

thank you for the wise post!

[therealme]

friends are only friends when they have no-one else to hang with, i lost all my friends when i became sick, yes they may have been busy but i doubt it.
i tried to put a brave face on ,but the smile soon went .
now i find my only friend are online
(((((((((karolina))))))))))))