[moonfrost]

Hi everyone,

I've tried twice to post a message, and I can't see it anywhere on the forum?-Hopefully, 3rd time lucky!

I'm gay and have become deeply sexually attracted to James Holmes-the alleged killer of at least 12 people in Aurora on 20th July last.

My question is this: is the way I'm feeling at the moment just a "man-crush" or indicative of something deeper which needs to be investigated by a psychiatrist?

Can someone please answer my question! Thank you.

what do you find attractive about him? his looks? the danger associated with him? his actions? please be more specific.

[Leed]

Personally I think I would speak to a therapist about this. To be attracted to someone who murdered 12 people is not what I would call "normal." I would think that one would find him disgusting by what he did -- not attractive. But this is just MY opinion.

You might think about it tho. God bless & take care. Hugs, Lee

[moonfrost]

Originally Posted by Leed

Personally I think I would speak to a therapist about this. To be attracted to someone who murdered 12 people is not what I would call "normal." I would think that one would find him disgusting by what he did -- not attractive. But this is just MY opinion.

You might think about it tho. God bless & take care. Hugs, Lee

Hi,

Thanks for your kind words. I fe fel too embarassed and ashamed to tell my doctor about this.I feel exbilarated bcoz I fancy him-yet feel terrible at the same time. But I think I do need some counselling. Take care.