[mister-a]

for all my life i have tried to be a good person for other people, i haven't got any motives to annoy or make people mad, nor have i ever got into an argument, and i don't understand why people try to be horrible and cruel to others if they are done hard to, because it feels sad that people are cruel to each other, and i don't understand what it's like to be mad or annoyed with people other than myself. i really do always try to be as good as possible to other people, but of the few people i know, people say 'aww' a lot and they say that i am very nice but *too* nice, and a couple of people have told me that it annoys them that i am always nice to them, but this makes me sad because i don't know how to make them not annoyed at me, and i don't know what i am doing wrong to make them mad? i don't really talk much, but i don't think that is relevant

[possum220]

You aren't a bad person because you are being good. Me thinks it is their problem not yours. If you are worried about it maybe ask them why they dont like it.

But otherwise it sounds like their problem not yours. Maybe find new friends?

hugs!

maybe it's a classic case of what some people go through... nothing to do with being a bad person, more to do with- oh... i'm doing what i can but i don't think it is good enough- i want to be better

[Benignity]

It's a social thing, most likely. It's not common to find someone in this world that is persistently and constantly nice. Your friends might think that you are being insincere, since most people fluctuate somewhat in that regard.

[lonelyBchoice]

As someone else have said. It must be related to their own issues.