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Old Apr 02, 2013, 06:19 PM
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Please give me a hug, and a comment if you wish, as long as I'm okay by you, I'm not a problem for you, or even if you like me a little bit.

I've been really sad and working hard on the end of term projects in my science program. I cry a lot, though, and have a bunch of new physical pain. I was sick for a while and got behind on a couple of things. On the bright side, my husband is making leaps and bounds and while that is fantastic, sometimes I feel inferior as a result as well. Glad we aren't both failures.

So, if you have a hug to spare, please give me one in support and good will.

Yup, this is a blatant request.
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Old Apr 02, 2013, 06:25 PM
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Hi I don't think I know you but I hoe things get better for you
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Old Apr 02, 2013, 09:20 PM
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...have a bunch of new physical pain. I was sick for a while...
Were you able to sufficiently recover before resuming full studies/activity?
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Old Apr 02, 2013, 09:24 PM
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Old Apr 02, 2013, 10:00 PM
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Old Apr 02, 2013, 10:00 PM
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Old Apr 02, 2013, 10:25 PM
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Old Apr 02, 2013, 10:28 PM
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I'm not a fan of emoticons, so I won't hug ya that way. Just know that things will get better. When I was in school I was able to get "incompletes" when things got too rough. I'm sure if you explain your situation to someone in authority & have a letter from your therapist or pdoc things will be OK. In the mean time, take care of yourself.
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Old Apr 02, 2013, 10:49 PM
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Were you able to sufficiently recover before resuming full studies/activity?
No, I had to just keep going. I was sick and had to do fieldwork in the cold in the mountains and in the rain. Hence my cold dragging on forever and the pain reaching new depths. It was that or be unable to complete the course. But thanks for asking and thanks for responding.
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Old Apr 03, 2013, 06:36 AM
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Beads glady send u virtual hug!!!!!!!!!
We also tell u that we sure do hope things get better for your soon. WE suffer from chronic pain too, so beads know how frustrateign that can be! Hope you feel gooder soon!
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Old Apr 03, 2013, 06:40 AM
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Old Apr 03, 2013, 07:35 AM
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H3rmit I hope your day is special for you, and HUGS!!
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Old Apr 03, 2013, 08:04 AM
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H3mit, I don't know you very well, but I wish you the very best. Hang in there. Things will get better and know that you have our support.
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Old Apr 03, 2013, 08:24 AM
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I am happy to respond. I offer you encouragement in your studies and I hope your pain eases up. You can be proud of your husband's accomplishments while at the same time knowing you are a special, unique person with your own talents. I know how hard it is to forge ahead. You can do it! I send you love.
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Old Apr 03, 2013, 09:27 AM
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Please give me a hug, and a comment if you wish, as long as I'm okay by you, I'm not a problem for you, or even if you like me a little bit.

I've been really sad and working hard on the end of term projects in my science program. I cry a lot, though, and have a bunch of new physical pain. I was sick for a while and got behind on a couple of things. On the bright side, my husband is making leaps and bounds and while that is fantastic, sometimes I feel inferior as a result as well. Glad we aren't both failures.

So, if you have a hug to spare, please give me one in support and good will.

Yup, this is a blatant request.
I like you h3rmit. Sorry you're having a rough go of it, and feeling sick on top of it! You aren't a failure!
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Old Apr 03, 2013, 09:33 AM
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Please give me a hug, and a comment if you wish, as long as I'm okay by you, I'm not a problem for you, or even if you like me a little bit.

I've been really sad and working hard on the end of term projects in my science program. I cry a lot, though, and have a bunch of new physical pain. I was sick for a while and got behind on a couple of things. On the bright side, my husband is making leaps and bounds and while that is fantastic, sometimes I feel inferior as a result as well. Glad we aren't both failures.

So, if you have a hug to spare, please give me one in support and good will.

Yup, this is a blatant request.

Hugs and warm thoughts to you!
Let the sunshine in, and the HEARTFELT smiles multiply
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Old Apr 04, 2013, 11:07 PM
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Thanks everyone! You gave me encouragement and a feeling of hope in some tough days. (And to anyone else, more is still very welcome. I am dealing with end of term, summer job apps, and an injury that is going to require major time and effort to recover from.)

Last edited by H3rmit; Apr 05, 2013 at 01:19 AM.
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Old Apr 05, 2013, 05:45 AM
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Hey H3rmit friend…lots and lots of hugs coming your way…
I understand the pressure of study and also chronic pain. You are a lovely person from what I know of you since I joined last month and you are well deserved of all these hugs from so many people.

Can I be bold enough to ask you for a hug? Need one…
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Old Apr 05, 2013, 06:15 AM
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Old Apr 05, 2013, 07:08 AM
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Think of it like riding a bicycle; when one foot is "up" (your husband) the other foot is down. You are doing fine, all the stuff that is actually needed to be done will get done, don't worry about when or how, it will work itself out.
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Old Apr 05, 2013, 07:40 AM
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We will take care of you. You kissed me when I had snot all over my face. If you did that should the popcorn is caramel. There was no wrong with you
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Old Apr 05, 2013, 10:30 AM
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There is a place in this world for you... for each of us. Sometimes we aren't ready to fill that spot yet.. and sometimes the process IS the "place"...
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Old Apr 09, 2013, 10:43 AM
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I hope that you start feeling a little bit better day by day, H3rmit!
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