[CJR520]

I haven't been in here in quite a while. My Mom was very sick, so was helping her with Dr. appointments and so on. She is better. Now, our son is well on the way to divorce. It is so sad to watch this. There are four little ones, 9, twins that are 4, and a two year old. The wife got mixed up in a very pushy church, and it is the ruination of their family. She holds this up above him, the kids, work at home, etc. It is very sad, but I just hope that our son can come out of this with some sort of normal life. He is a good father and has changed more than his share of diapers, cooks. does laundry, and has allowed her to be at home. Now, he finds that there are thousands of dollars in credit card bills that he did not know about. Also, ther is his mother in law living with them. She has alzheimers and poos her pants. He is even a good enough human being to clean her up when his wife will not do it. She is keeping her mother there because she wants everything moneywise and propertywise. Our son can't take it any more. I feel bad for them all, but I don't really blame him. And we love all of them. It will be tough!!

[seeker1950]

Hi, CRJ,
I'm so sorry to hear you and your son are going thru this.
I have 4 year old twin grandsons, and would be devasted by what you are experiencing.
I don't doubt he is a good father, and must be suffering.
Keep us posted on how things work out for him ....and you!
Love,
Patty

[(JD)]

Welcome back! ooohhhh sorry things are so conflicted in family BUT good to see you posting again (((CJR)))

[CJR520]

Thanks everyone! Daughter in law thinks we hate her because of what she has done. I don't hate her, just don't really understand a lot of things. They have to work those things out themselves. Thanks again! I will come in here more often. It really helps!